How Beautiful We Were: A Novel

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Does a cat die?
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Does an animal die?
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The villagers engage in hunting, slaughter of livestock, and animal sacrifice
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Were animals harmed in the making?
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Does someone vomit?
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Vomiting, including vomiting blood, is a symptom of the diseases the villagers develop from the pollution
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Does a horse die?
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Is an animal abandoned?
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Is an animal sad?
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Is a child abused?
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Is there eye mutilation?
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Is a woman brutalized for spectacle?
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Both due to violence and disease
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Is a minor sexualized?
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Is someone tortured?
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Prison torture strongly implied
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Are rabbits harmed?
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Is rape mentioned?
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Is there bestiality?
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There is a rumor that the country’s leader gave up his p***s for power
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Is there domestic violence?
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Does a kid die?
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Many children die throughout
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Are there incestuous relationships?
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The villagers speculate that two adult twins in the village sleep together because they never seem interested in women. This suspicion is not confirmed
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Does it have a sad ending?
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Is there blood/gore?
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A spiritual figure cuts the soles of a child’s feet in a ritual to get him to come back to life
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Is there sexual content?
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There’s mention of people losing teeth with age.
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Mention of someone slicing a tax collector's head with a machete
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Are there spiders?
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Are there end credit scenes?
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Is there a hanging?
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4 members of the village are hanged by the government
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Are there abusive parents?
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Are there nude scenes?
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Are there homophobic slurs?
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Is there autism specific abuse?
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Is there defecation?
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Are there flashing lights or images?
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Are there fat jokes?
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Is there shakey cam?
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Is there throat mutilation?
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A group of villagers goes to a big city, and they conclude that there are no real women there because women wear pants and some have short hair. They respond this way because they have never seen women dress in this manner.
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Is there shaving/cutting?
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Is someone crushed to death?
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Are there "Man in a dress" jokes?
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Is someone sexually objectified?
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Are there sudden loud noises?
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Are needles/syringes used?
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Are there bugs?
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Does a dragon die?
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Is there amputation?
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There is a character called Konga who is referred to as “the village madman.” People never touch him because it’s a cultural taboo
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Is autism misrepresented?
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Is there copaganda?
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Is someone eaten?
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Is there misophonia?
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An imprisoned man goes on a hunger strike, though
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Is there deadnaming or birthnaming?
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Is there blackface?
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Is there a large age gap?
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Is a mentally ill person violent?
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Is there Achilles Tendon injury?
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Is the r-slur used?
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Does an LGBT person die?
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The government gaslights the village to distract them from their fears about the oil mining and the disappearance of some of its members.
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Are there anti-abortion themes?
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Is there dementia/Alzheimer's?
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Does someone miscarry?
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Is someone drugged?
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Is trypophobic content shown?
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Is there a mental institution scene?
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Is a minority misrepresented?
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Is there gun violence?
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Is a child's toy destroyed?
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Are there usages of the n-word?
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Does a parent die?
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The protagonist's father and many other unnamed characters
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Is there hate speech?
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Does a major character die?
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Are there fat suits?
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Is there childbirth?
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In prison
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Is reality unstable or unhinged?
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There is decades’ long trauma among the people in the book, including disease, death, and government repression
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Does a woman get slapped?
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Does a pregnant person die?
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Is an LGBT+ person outed?
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Is someone abused with a belt?
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Is there BDSM?
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I would say yes. A character has a penchant for throwing food from his wife on the ground if he doesn’t like it. Their son worries the situation will escalate into him hitting her, which doesn’t happen. Even so, there is the cycle of harm and asking for forgiveness. We later find out that this character was sexually assaulted as a child by an uncle, and no adult stood by his side when he told what happened
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An elderly character loses the ability to walk to an outhouse. Her daughter-in-law cleans her when she defacates or urinates while lying in bed
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Is there body dysmorphia?
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Is electro-therapy used?
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Are any hands damaged?
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Is someone terminally ill?
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Is there bisexual cheating?
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The protagonist's father and many other unnamed characters
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Does a car crash?
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Is someone stabbed?
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Is someone stalked?
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Is there addiction?
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Are there razors?
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Does someone cheat?
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Almost all the characters are Black. The deaths are not happening because of a racist author. Quite the contrary
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A baby has a seizure
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Are there anxiety attacks?
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Are there abortions?
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The diseases that people catch from environmental destruction are never given an explicit diagnosis, but surely some of them were cancer
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Does a baby cry?
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Does someone abuse alcohol?
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Are there bedbugs?
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Is there ABA therapy?
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Does a plane crash?
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Is someone watched without knowing?
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Does someone overdose?
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Are there babies or unborn children?
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Is there a hospital scene?
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Is someone possessed?
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Does someone fall down stairs?
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Does someone lose their virginity?
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Is there farting?
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Is there body dysphoria?
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Does someone fall to their death?
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Is existentialism debated?
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Multiple villagers suffer from chronic illnesses caused by oil pollution
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Does someone spit?
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Several instances of someone spitting at/on someone throughout
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Does someone sacrifice themselves?
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Is someone kidnapped?
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Are there clowns?
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Is there a nuclear explosion?
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Is religion discussed?
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Are there demons or Hell?
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Are there underwater scenes?
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Does someone have a mental illness?
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Much of the book is told in the first person plural, i.e. the narrator uses “we” and “us” a lot. I don’t know if this counts
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Is there a shower scene?
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Are there sharks?
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A baby becomes still after a seizure and people think the baby is dead. He later revives.
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Does someone have a meltdown?
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Is Santa (et al) spoiled?
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Are there ghosts?
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The villagers have cultural beliefs about spirits and call on spirits to help them
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Are there tsunamis?
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Is there incarceration?
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Are there 9/11 depictions?
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Are there mannequins?
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Is a priceless artifact destroyed?
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Is there menstruation?
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Is someone homeless?
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Are there natural bodies of water?
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Are there dislocations?
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Is someone beaten up by a bully?
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Is someone held under water?
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Are there heart attacks?
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Is someone's mouth covered?
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Does someone break a bone?
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Is there screaming?
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Is there Aphobia?
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Are there transphobic slurs?
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Is someone burned alive?
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Is there audio gore?
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Does someone asphyxiate?
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Is a baby stillborn?
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Is there a claustrophobic scene?
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Does a non-human character die?
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Does someone die?
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Is an infant abducted?
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The illnesses caused by being in an environment with constant oil spills sound horrifying
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Is there decapitation?
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Is someone choked?
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Is someone buried alive?
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Is there D.I.D. misrepresentation?
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Are there snakes?
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Are there alligators/crocodiles??
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Does someone self harm?
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The country’s leader says something about eating his enemies or killing them and making their relatives eat them. This is towards the end of the book. I don’t think it was serious
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Does someone struggle to breathe?
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Is someone hit by a car?
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Does someone drown?
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Is a child abandoned by a parent?
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Mention of soldiers raping girls in other villages
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Detailed description of child sexual assault towards the end of Yaya’s chapter
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