Ander & Santi Were Here
Book • 2023 • Romance
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Santi doesn’t say this outright, but he says his father was a womanizer and got into a conflict that led to the latter being killed. I imagine someone like that was probably abusiva, but this isn’t described
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The protagonist is nonbinary, and all his friends and family use their correct pronouns and don’t stumble with it at all, not even in Spanish, which is a much more gendered language than English
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Santi’s dad and brother died before the events of the book
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Ander starts dissociating after realizing an ICE van is following them
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Cathartic shower scene after ICE fails to catch Santi
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The San Antonio River
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