The Cook, the Thief, His Wife & Her Lover

Movie • 1989 • Crime  

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The wife of an abusive criminal finds solace in the arms of a kind regular guest in her husband's restaurant.
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Does the dog die?
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Kipar13
Hit by a car at :57
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weewooweewoo
Various dead animals shown in a slaughterhouse or cooked and served in a restaurant.
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Is there audio gore?
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Are there end credit scenes?
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Is there on-screen pooping?
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Are there sudden loud noises?
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Is there throat mutilation?
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Is there a large age gap?
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Is autism misrepresented?
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Is a child abandoned by a parent?
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Abandonment
Is an animal abandoned?
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Abuse
Are there abusive parents?
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Is someone stalked?
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movieman
To the wife throughout. On and Off screen
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Is a woman brutalized for spectacle?
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Is someone gaslighted?
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Is a child abused?
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movieman
A child is harassed by the thief throughout, and later mutilated by him
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Addiction
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Is there addiction?
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movieman
The Thief is shown to be drunk during a few scenes in the film.
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Animal
Does a horse die?
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Does an animal die?
(besides a dog, cat or horse)
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Kipar13
Not killed on screen, but multiple scenes feature dead birds, pigs, and sea creatures - sometimes being plucked, butchered, descaled, etc.
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Are animals abused?
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Is there a dead animal?
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Is an animal sad?
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Are rabbits harmed?
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Does a cat die?
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Does a pet die?
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Does a dragon die?
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Are there spiders?
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Are there alligators/crocodiles??
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Are there snakes?
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Are there sharks?
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Are there bugs?
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Kipar13
Maggots
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Assault
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movieman
In the beginning, the thief repeatedly slaps his wife in the face with a menu for correcting his french pronunciation.
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Is someone drugged?
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Is there pedophilia?
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A child is sexually harassed and nearly forced to watch another character being raped (the child is played by an adult actor if that helps)
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Is rape mentioned?
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VeeElle
Rape is implied although not explicitly shown in the first half of the film (the camera is a long way away and we cannot see anything). Sexual assault is discussed in the second half of the film. Technically I don't think there is any mention of the word "rape", but the constant implied sexual violence would be triggering to anybody who finds the topic upsetting.
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Is someone beaten up by a bully?
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movieman
The thief and his gang hold people down to be beaten and humiliated throughout the movie, all visibly struggling to break free.
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McKenzieWilkes
Just adding onto that other comment by saying the described past abuse at the end is very long and detailed and heavily triggering. If you're sensitive to this, absolutely skip the entire monologue.
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Bodily Harm
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movieman
The theif stabs a woman in the cheek with a fork. She is seen later with a bandaged face.
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movieman
A death involves choking on book pages forcefully suffed in nose and mouth. Scene goes on for a few minutes
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Is there decapitation?
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Is there cannibalism?
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movieman
At gunpoint.
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Is someone burned alive?
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Is someone buried alive?
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Is there body horror?
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weewooweewoo
A character's corpse is cooked. Lots of lingering shots of the "meal"
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Does a head get squashed?
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Is there a hanging?
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movieman
The antagonist knees a man in the groin in a restroom. Also tells one of his thugs he'll "expect him to chew someone's bollocks off on demand". He clarifies later he was speaking metaphorically, when said goon thinks he'll actually have to.
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movieman
Two characters explicitly pass out in the movie. One from torture, the next from shock. Some are seen nodding off at the dinner table a couple of times in the movie, possibly from alcohol consumption.
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Does someone have a seizure?
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Are any teeth damaged?
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Is there finger/toe mutilation?
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Is someone tortured?
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movieman
Movie opens with the "theif" and his gang stripping a debtor in a back alley and smearing him in/force feeding him dog feces. Later a young boy is force fed the buttons on his shirt, and the thief cuts off his bellybutton before he passes out in agony. A Man is killed choking on book pages forced down his throat and nose by a wooden spindle.
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Does someone fall to their death?
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Is there eye mutilation?
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Is there excessive gore?
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Children
Is an infant abducted?
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Does a kid die?
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movieman
Tortured and hospitalized, but lives to feature in the collective revenge in the climax.
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Is a minor sexualized?
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weewooweewoo
All minor characters are played by adults well into their twenties.
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Death
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movieman
Two of the four eponymous characters.
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Does someone die?
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Family
Does a parent die?
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Is a child's toy destroyed?
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Is someone kidnapped?
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Does someone cheat?
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movieman
The plot of the movie is a woman cheating on her gangster husband under his nose.
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Fear
Are there ghosts?
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Are there jump scares?
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movieman
Two scenes when characters are hosed down to wash them.
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Are there clowns?
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Is someone possessed?
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Are there mannequins?
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Gross
Does someone vomit?
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McKenzieWilkes
Just for more details — at the seafood dinner it's obvious it's happening because Spica tells someone not to vomit and pretty immediately after that they do. There's some gagging beforehand, so once that starts I'd skip about a minute. The second instance near the end is when they're torturing the young singing boy, and after the boy passes out then a man walks towards the camera and throws up. I'd skip about 30 seconds to a minute once the kid passes out to skip it. Final time is at the very end and it's as Spica is bringing a fork of [SPOILER] to his mouth to take a bite and he pukes quickly before taking the bite.
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Is someone eaten?
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movieman
Not alive, but...
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Does someone spit?
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movieman
References to farting, a character spits out bread after hearing a description of a "prairie oyster"
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Law Enforcement
Is there copaganda?
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LGBTQ+
Are there transphobic slurs?
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Is there deadnaming or birthnaming?
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Medical
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movieman
briefly mentioned as a joke.
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Are needles/syringes used?
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Is there a mental institution scene?
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A boy is hospitalized, and a main character visits him.
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Does someone have cancer?
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Mental Health
Does someone have a mental illness?
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Does someone self harm?
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Is a mentally ill person violent?
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Is there autism specific abuse?
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Are there anxiety attacks?
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The Thief talks about how he thinks "Ethiopes like to starve themselves to keep their figures slim and graceful"
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Two people are closed in the back of a smallish truck filled with rotting meat.
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Does someone have an eating disorder?
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Noxious
Is there shakey cam?
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The most
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Are there flashing lights or images?
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Paranoia
Is the fourth wall broken?
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Pregnancy
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Mentions past miscarriages.
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Are there babies or unborn children?
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Is there childbirth?
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Does a pregnant person die?
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Prejudice
Are there homophobic slurs?
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weewooweewoo
No but a villainous character makes multiple anti-black comments
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McKenzieWilkes
The titular Lover (Michael), when formally introduced to Georgina by Spica asks him if he’s Jewish in a way that feels very predatory and anti-Semitic. Michael says he’s not, but later in the film he’s continually referred to as a Jew derogatorily. I’m unclear if Michael was lying or whether he is Jewish or not, but either way the anti-Semitism is still there.
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Are there fat jokes?
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Does the black guy die first?
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Race
Is there blackface?
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Sex
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movieman
From the word "go"
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Is there bestiality?
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Does someone lose their virginity?
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Is someone sexually objectified?
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Are there incestuous relationships?
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movieman
Lots of nudity front and back, man and woman, Passionate affairs and abuse shown
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Sickness
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Social
Is someone homeless?
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Spoiler
Is Santa (et al) spoiled?
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movieman
Bittersweet. Ends in revenge.
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Vehicular
Does a plane crash?
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A dog
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Violence
Does someone drown?
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Is there blood/gore?
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movieman
The death by books is extremely bloody, and we linger on the corpse a while. A very bloody is taken out of said character's nostril
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Is there a nuclear explosion?
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A gun is pulled at various points, only fired once.
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