Youve Got Mail
Movie • 1998 • Comedy
ReportBook superstore magnate, Joe Fox and independent book shop owner, Kathleen Kelly fall in love in the anonymity of the Internet—both blissfully unaware that he's trying to put her out of business.
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Theres a goldfish in a bag typical carnival stuff
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The dynamic between the main guy and main girl is a "love" story, but the guy is very manipulative. He causes economic and emotional strain for the main girl, which shouldn't have happened, and the guy doesn't apologize for, and she just forgives him because "love" but the harm done to her is unresolved.
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Is someone gaslighted?
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OneirosDream
Not exactly... but someone messes with someone else in a potentially catfishing sort of way. It's the 90s, they start out as anonymous penpals on AOL, and one person learns the identity of the other... It gets messy from there.
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Does the abused become the abuser?
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Is someone stalked?
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LightJest
No but a man does befriend a woman while knowing more about her than she realises due to anonymous email communication, which is a bit stalkery
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Is there domestic violence?
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Are there abusive parents?
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Not a parent but an adult who's watching two children gently pushes the children, once with his knee. He also picks the little boy up by his shirt and then his shoulders in a playfully aggressive away. Not abusive but potentially upsetting.
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Animal
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Are animals abused?
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No but there is a fairground goldfish carried around in a plastic bag all afternoon.
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Is there a dead animal?
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A dead mouse is mentioned in a story but it is not shown
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Are there bugs?
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A butterfly
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Does a woman get slapped?
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Is someone's mouth covered?
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Not actually physically restraining but a male character puts his hand over a woman characters mouth (sort of in a 'shush' way. But four fingers instead of one)
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Does someone die?
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No but it is mentioned that a murderer is arrested. No murders are shown or talked about specifically.
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Family
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Meg Ryan's character's Mom passed away prior to the events of the movie but there are references to this several times throughout.
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Does someone cheat?
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Several people are emotionally invested/flirting with someone other than their significant other. Nothing physical happens, though.
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Is a child's toy destroyed?
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A children’s bookshop closes
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Are there natural bodies of water?
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fraisierdesbois
There's a scene where one of the characters is getting ready to go sailing. I don't know why someone voted "no".
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LightJest
No but at a party a man removes a knife from his partner's hand, concerned she might stab an unpleasant man
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Are there ghosts?
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LightJest
No but when a woman leaves her shop for the final time she imagines seeing a ghostly image of her mother and herself as a child dancing
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Is there bisexual cheating?
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LightJest
Yes, a woman leaves her older male fiancé for the female nanny. This happens off screen and is only discussed by the man.
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Is a priceless artifact destroyed?
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No but a beloved family business is forced to shut
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Does someone attempt suicide?
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Does someone die by suicide?
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Does someone say "I'll kill myself"?
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Is there a claustrophobic scene?
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Four people are briefly trapped in an elevator.
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Race
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Relationships
Is there a large age gap?
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LightJest
The men in the Fox family date much younger women, hence the male protagonist has an aunt and a brother who are decades younger than him.
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Sex
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There is sexual dialogue about cyber sex, but no actual physical content.
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The stepmom of one (adult) character keeps flirting with him but nothing happens and he calls her out for it
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Vehicular
Is someone hit by a car?
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Moomin
There is a conversation imagining someone is hit by a train but it does not happen
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Does a car honk or tires screech?
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Anonymous
New York traffic sounds are present
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