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Movie • 1998 • Comedy  

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Book superstore magnate, Joe Fox and independent book shop owner, Kathleen Kelly fall in love in the anonymity of the Internet—both blissfully unaware that he's trying to put her out of business.
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Does the dog die?
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40thieves
Theres a goldfish in a bag typical carnival stuff
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Is an animal abandoned?
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Is an animal sad?
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Are there end credit scenes?
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Is there on-screen pooping?
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Are there sudden loud noises?
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Is autism misrepresented?
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Are there fat suits?
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Is the r-slur used?
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Abandonment
Is a child abandoned by a parent?
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Abuse
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BugB
Not a parent but an adult who's watching two children gently pushes the children, once with his knee. He also picks the little boy up by his shirt and then his shoulders in a playfully aggressive away. Not abusive but potentially upsetting.
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Ashley_Kate
The dynamic between the main guy and main girl is a "love" story, but the guy is very manipulative. He causes economic and emotional strain for the main girl, which shouldn't have happened, and the guy doesn't apologize for, and she just forgives him because "love" but the harm done to her is unresolved.
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Is someone stalked?
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Is there domestic violence?
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Is a woman brutalized for spectacle?
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OneirosDream
Not exactly... but someone messes with someone else in a potentially catfishing sort of way. It's the 90s, they start out as anonymous penpals on AOL, and one person learns the identity of the other... It gets messy from there.
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Is a child abused?
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Addiction
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Is there addiction?
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Does someone abuse alcohol?
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Animal
Does a horse die?
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Does an animal die?
(besides a dog, cat or horse)
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Are animals abused?
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Moomin
A dead mouse is mentioned in a story but it is not shown
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Are rabbits harmed?
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Does a cat die?
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Does a pet die?
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Does a dragon die?
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Are there spiders?
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Are there alligators/crocodiles??
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Are there snakes?
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Are there sharks?
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Are there bugs?
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fraisierdesbois
A butterfly
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Assault
Is someone drugged?
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Is there pedophilia?
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Is someone held under water?
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Is rape mentioned?
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Is someone beaten up by a bully?
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Is someone restrained?
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Is someone sexually assaulted?
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Bodily Harm
Is there shaving/cutting?
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Does someone struggle to breathe?
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Is there decapitation?
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Is there cannibalism?
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Is someone crushed to death?
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Is someone choked?
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Is someone burned alive?
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Is someone buried alive?
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Is there body horror?
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Is there amputation?
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Does a head get squashed?
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Is there Achilles Tendon injury?
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Is there a hanging?
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Does someone asphyxiate?
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Is there genital trauma/mutilation?
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Does someone become unconscious?
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Does someone break a bone?
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Does someone have a seizure?
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Are any teeth damaged?
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Is there finger/toe mutilation?
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Is someone tortured?
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Does someone fall down stairs?
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Does someone fall to their death?
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Is there eye mutilation?
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Is there excessive gore?
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Children
Is an infant abducted?
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Does a kid die?
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Is a minor sexualized?
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Death
Does someone sacrifice themselves?
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Does a major character die?
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Does a non-human character die?
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Does someone die?
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BugB
No but it is mentioned that a murderer is arrested. No murders are shown or talked about specifically.
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Drugs/Alcohol
Does someone overdose?
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Family
Does a family member die?
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Does a parent die?
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Fairhannah
Meg Ryan's character's Mom passed away prior to the events of the movie but there are references to this several times throughout.
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Moomin
A children’s bookshop closes
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Is someone kidnapped?
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Does someone cheat?
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CielAce
Several people are emotionally invested/flirting with someone other than their significant other. Nothing physical happens, though.
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Fear
Are there ghosts?
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Are there jump scares?
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Is there a shower scene?
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fraisierdesbois
There's a scene where one of the characters is getting ready to go sailing. I don't know why someone voted "no".
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Are there clowns?
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Is someone possessed?
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Are there razors?
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Gross
Does someone vomit?
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Does someone wet/soil themselves?
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Is there farting?
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Is someone eaten?
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Does someone spit?
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Is there audio gore?
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Large-scale Violence
Are there 9/11 depictions?
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Law Enforcement
Is there copaganda?
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LGBTQ+
Are there transphobic slurs?
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Is there deadnaming or birthnaming?
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Is there bisexual cheating?
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Medical
Is electro-therapy used?
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Are needles/syringes used?
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Is there a mental institution scene?
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Is there a hospital scene?
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Does someone have cancer?
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Mental Health
Does someone have a mental illness?
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Does someone self harm?
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Is a mentally ill person violent?
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Is there D.I.D. misrepresentation?
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Is there autism specific abuse?
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Is reality unstable or unhinged?
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Is there misophonia?
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Are there anxiety attacks?
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Is there ABA therapy?
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Is there body dysphoria?
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Is there body dysmorphia?
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vlixxord
Four people are briefly trapped in an elevator.
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Does someone have an eating disorder?
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Does someone suffer from PTSD?
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Noxious
Is there shakey cam?
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Does a baby cry?
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Is there obscene language/gestures?
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Are there flashing lights or images?
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Paranoia
Is someone watched without knowing?
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Is the fourth wall broken?
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Pregnancy
Is a baby stillborn?
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Does someone miscarry?
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Are there babies or unborn children?
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Is there childbirth?
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Are there abortions?
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Does a pregnant person die?
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Prejudice
Are there homophobic slurs?
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Are there usages of the n-word?
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Are there "Man in a dress" jokes?
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Does an LGBT person die?
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Are there fat jokes?
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Does the black guy die first?
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Is there hate speech?
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Race
Is there blackface?
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Relationships
Is there a large age gap?
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Sex
Are there nude scenes?
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Is there bestiality?
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Does someone lose their virginity?
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Is someone sexually objectified?
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Are there incestuous relationships?
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CielAce
The stepmom of one (adult) character keeps flirting with him but nothing happens and he calls her out for it
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TriedandTrulyYours
There is sexual dialogue about cyber sex, but no actual physical content.
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Sexism
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Sickness
Is someone terminally ill?
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Does someone have a stroke?
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Does someone have a chronic illness?
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Is there dementia/Alzheimer's?
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Social
Is someone homeless?
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Are there anti-abortion themes?
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Spoiler
Is Santa (et al) spoiled?
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Does it have a sad ending?
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Vehicular
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New York traffic sounds are present
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Does a car crash?
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Does a plane crash?
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Moomin
There is a conversation imagining someone is hit by a train but it does not happen
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Violence
Does someone drown?
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Is there blood/gore?
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Is there a nuclear explosion?
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Is there gun violence?
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