Lady Bird
Movie • 2017 • Comedy
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Is a child abandoned by a parent?
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Lady Bird isn’t abandoned in the literal sense but there are scenes where her mom leaves her when she needs her, like at the end where her mom leaves her at the airport without saying goodbye.
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Sort of. Lady bird’s mother isn’t talking to her at the end of the movie when she leaves for college. She drives her to the airport but doesn’t say goodbye.
Also: A beloved drama teacher doesn’t come back the next semester.
Also: A beloved drama teacher doesn’t come back the next semester.
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Lady bird's mother is highly verbally abusive throughout, often gaslighting and mistreating her daughter as well as refusing to speak to her for an extended period of time after a fight and a multitude of other manipulation tactics. This treatment was distressing for me and could be for others who have also experienced abuse
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Is there domestic violence?
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Are there abusive parents?
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Ladybird’s parents clearly love her a lot but the movie does focus on a period where she is fighting a lot with her mom. Many harsh words are exchanged and feelings are hurt (with good reason). It’s not really abuse in the technical sense but it could be triggering or upsetting to people who are sensitive to mother/daughter fighting scenes and harsh/unfair criticism and hurtful language from a mother figure (in the context of an argument).
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Is someone gaslighted?
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Lady Bird has sex with a man who's told her he's a virgin. After they have sex, he denies having ever said this.
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The mother character is not necessarily abusive as a pattern but she does say very hurtful things to Ladybird when they are fighting. In one of these arguments she mentions that her mother was an abusive alcoholic.
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Does an abused person forgive their abuser?
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Lady Bird forgives Danny, who cheated on her. It's a bit murky considering the validity of his reasons, but you can still consider cheating as abuse, and Lady Bird definitely forgives him.
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Addiction
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Does someone abuse alcohol?
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Lady Bird gets so drunk that she throws up and goes to the hospital.
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Ladybird and her friends smoke weed after a concert
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Lady Bird consents to sex based on lies told to her by her sexual partner, which is a form of sexual assault. See the gaslighting section for more details.
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Does a woman get slapped?
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I don’t know why there aren’t much votes. Nobody is raped on- en offscreen. And no rape is implied. There is only a boy who first claimes to never had a sexual experience, but afterwards says he has had sex before.
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Is there pedophilia?
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No. It’s not explicit but it seems like Julie has a crush on her favorite math teacher and he definitely doesn’t discourage her attention: he gives her a nickname, praises her hard work on assignments and comes to see her in the musical with his pregnant wife. It could be upsetting to people who are highly sensitive to predatory teachers however what’s shown in the movie is fairly innocent and as far as we know nothing ever happens.
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Bodily Harm
Is there eye mutilation?
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There is a kid in the hospital scene that has a bandage around his head and one eye, implying that there is eye trauma but no actual eye mutilation scenes.
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Is there shaving/cutting?
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I don’t think so? Definitely not in detail. There are some bathroom scenes with the parents that may include the dad shaving? But nothing major or closeup for sure (and maybe nothing at all).
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Does someone break a bone?
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Lady Bird breaks her arm when she jumps out of a moving car
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Does someone become unconscious?
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Ladybird gets very drunk at her first college party at the end of the movie. She then throws up while making out with someone and then passes out and is rushed to the hospital for alcohol poisoning. She wakes up alone in the hospital room.
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Is someone stabbed?
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No stabbing on screen or that’s relevant to the plot. There are a few mentions that the brother saw someone ‘get knifed’ at public school which is why the mom enrolled Ladybird in the catholic school.
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Children
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Is a minor sexualized?
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Lady Bird is 17 in her sex scene
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Creepy Crawly
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Death
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Disability
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Drugs/Alcohol
Does someone overdose?
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No drug overdoses. Ladybird gets alcohol poisoning at her first college party in New York at the end of the movie. She throws up, passes out and is rushed to the hospital where she wakes up and is fine to go home.
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Family
Does a parent die?
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One of the lead characters parents is dying of cancer, and you see the parent briefly, but they don’t discuss when the parent passes.
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Does someone cheat?
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Ladybird finds her boyfriend kissing another guy in a bathroom stall
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Does a family member die?
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There is a brief mention of a side character's great aunt passing away.
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Fear
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Is there a shower scene?
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No, but she is shown in the bathtub in one scene, it's just her feet though.
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Are there mannequins?
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I don’t think so? Maybe in the background at the thrift store when they are shopping for dresses but none that I remember.
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Gross
Does someone vomit?
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I’m an emetephobe (or however you spell it) and I was fine watching this scene, you don’t see anything other than her head moving out of shot, and the sound wasn’t too bad either.
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Large-scale Violence
Are there 9/11 depictions?
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No depictions, some references to 9/11, terrorism, and the Gulf War.
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Law Enforcement
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LGBTQ+
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Is there deadnaming or birthnaming?
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Lady Bird prefers to be called her own name, and her mother resists this. Lady Bird is cis as far as we know.
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Is there bisexual cheating?
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Ladybird’s finds her first boyfriend kissing another boy in a bathroom stall. However he is revealed to be gay (closeted) and not bisexual. There are scenes earlier in the movie where they are kissing and he doesn’t want to touch her b***s which support this reveal.
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Is an LGBT+ person outed?
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Not in the typical sense, but Lady Bird discovers her first boyfriend, Dylan, kissing a boy, therefore leading to her and her best friend realizing that he is gay before they were told. They don’t tell anybody else about this
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Loss
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Medical
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Is there a mental institution scene?
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The mom works in a psych ward and one of the priests comes in and they elude to him having troubling thoughts. It’s set in a doctors office room, though. Nothing like seeing the actual psych ward itself.
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Is there a hospital scene?
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Ladybird gets sent to the hospital after ***triggering word for emetaphobia ahead***
vomiting
vomiting
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Is there menstruation?
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brief mention of a period from off-screen
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Does someone have cancer?
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A Kyle's dad has cancer it's mentioned 2 times and you see his dad once briefly while he is asleep.
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Mental Health
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No, but a character's son died from overdose. Some people think it was a suicide. But it's literally one line and it doesn't have relevance in the story
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Ladybird jumps out of a moving car in the first scene but it’s not intended as a suicide attempt and she just ends up with a broken arm.
The priest who directs the fall musical is seen in an evaluation with ladybird’s mom (a nurse at a hospital) and it is implied he has had suicidal ideations but no attempt is shown or discussed.
The priest who directs the fall musical is seen in an evaluation with ladybird’s mom (a nurse at a hospital) and it is implied he has had suicidal ideations but no attempt is shown or discussed.
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Lady Bird throws herself out of a moving vehicle, early in the film. She also drinks very heavily at the end of the film.
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Does someone have an eating disorder?
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No one actually has an eating disorder but there is a coment about Wishing to have an eating disorder."
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Is there misophonia?
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There are some chewing sounds during a few snacking scenes but nothing unusual by tv standards and easy to skip. Only a concern for people who are highly sensitive to any/all crunching or chewing sounds and all scenes are brief.
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Does someone say "I'll kill myself"?
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Is there body dysmorphia?
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There are a lot of scenes where ladybird and Julie talk how they want to be skinnier and "look like the girls in the magazines"
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Does someone have a mental illness?
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It is revealed that the dad struggles with depression and has been taking antidepressants.
There is a psych evaluation with the priest/drama teacher that suggests he is depressed and struggling with suicidal thoughts.
There is a psych evaluation with the priest/drama teacher that suggests he is depressed and struggling with suicidal thoughts.
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Are there underwater scenes?
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There’s a scene with Ladybird and her friend swimming in the friend’s pool that shows them underwater and floating in the water.
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Paranoia
Is someone watched without knowing?
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Just very briefly, Lady Bird watches a boy through a window.
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Pregnancy
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Are there abortions?
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There is a big scene that talks about abortion somewhat graphically.
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Are there babies or unborn children?
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Some models of a fetus are shown during a school assembly on abortion
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Prejudice
Are there homophobic slurs?
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No, when Lady Bird’s ex boyfriend comes out as gay she’s actually really supportive and sweet to him
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Does an LGBT person die?
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There is actually a gay character in this movie, and they don’t die.
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Are there fat jokes?
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Not really jokes, but a lot of comments made by Ladybird and Julie on how they wish they were skinnier.
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Race
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Relationships
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Religious
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Is religion discussed?
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Yes ladybird goes to a catholic school so lots of praying in school, nuns/priests etc. I think she also has some conversations about god, religion etc.
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Sex
Are there nude scenes?
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Not fully nude but there is a sex scene where Ladybird is seen in her bra and underwear.
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Are there incestuous relationships?
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Does someone lose their virginity?
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Yes. Ladybird loses her virginity to Kyle. At the time she thinks he is also a virgin. In bed afterwards he admits he has had other partners and denies ever saying otherwise (though the scene where he said he was a virgin is shown). She is upset and embarrassed in the moment and breaks up with him.
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Is there sexual content?
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There is sexual content but it is not graphic
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Sexism
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Sickness
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Does someone have a chronic illness?
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Kyle’s dad is dying of cancer. You don’t see much but he talks about it on a few occasions.
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Social
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Are there anti-abortion themes?
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The movie and Ladybird’s stance is definitely pro-choice but you do see an anti-abortion assembly at a Catholic girl’s school which could be upsetting to viewers sensitive to anti-choice propaganda.
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Spoiler
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Does it have a sad ending?
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Emotional, it can make you cry but it isn't sad nor tragic
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Vehicular
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Does a car crash?
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No but the main character jumps out of a moving car and the car is stopped at a force
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Is someone hit by a car?
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While there is no car accident in Lady Bird, towards the beginning, the protagonist jumps out of a moving a car during a heated argument with her mother, who then screams. It skips to the next day, and she's left with a cast for her broken arm.
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Violence
Is there blood/gore?
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Lady bird gets a bloody nose. You don't see much blood just a little.
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