Call Me By Your Name
Movie • 2017 • Drama
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Abandonment
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Abuse
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The movie's about a romantic relationship between a 17 year old and a 24 year old
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Is there domestic violence?
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Does an abused person forgive their abuser?
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There is no abuse in the movie whatsoever.
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There is no abuse in the movie whatsoever.
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Is someone stalked?
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Elio becomes infatuated with Oliver and indulges in some mildly stalker-like behaviour (eg. sneaking into Oliver's room to put Oliver's boxer shorts over his face). It is presented as benign, never turns controlling or menacing, and Oliver is mostly flattered.
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Does someone abuse alcohol?
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No one abuses alcohol but there is a scene where the 2 main characters are drunk and one throws up rather suddenly
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Cigarettes, but that's it.
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Animal
Are animals abused?
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An alive fish is being carried to the kitchen by a man with bare hands.
You can see the fish opening and closing the mouth trying to breathe. I loved the movie but this scene made me look away.
You can see the fish opening and closing the mouth trying to breathe. I loved the movie but this scene made me look away.
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Were animals harmed in the making?
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The fish in the patio scene
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Is there a dead animal?
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Dead fish that was caught at around 25:00 when Elio is sitting at a table and writing. Elio makes bubbling sounds with the fish.
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Are there bugs?
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There are bugs surrounding many of the scenes, as this is Italy in the summer, but no graphic up close bug shots
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No, but a fish is carried towards the house likely to be cooked later
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Assault
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The movie is a romance between a 17 year old and a 24 year old
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Is there pedophilia?
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The movie is set in Italy and was directed by an Italian, where 17 is the age of majority. USA laws have no impact on the story.
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Does a woman get slapped?
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Bodily Harm
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Is there cannibalism?
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no but Armie Hammer is a Cannibal
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Is there shaving/cutting?
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There is a seconds-long-shot of Elio shaving his barely-there mustache in front of a mirror.
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Children
Is a minor sexualized?
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The movie revolves around a (sexual) relationship that involves a 17-year-old. He also has sex with a girl whose age is unspecified but who is likely the same age
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Does a kid die?
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[SPOILERS]
Comet Tiamat hits Itomori, killing all of its citizens - which includes 17 year old Mitsuha, 9 year old Yotsuha, and several other teens and young children. However, Taki goes back in time and helps Mitsuha and her friends save Itomori before Comet Tiamat hits again, preventing them from dying this time.
Comet Tiamat hits Itomori, killing all of its citizens - which includes 17 year old Mitsuha, 9 year old Yotsuha, and several other teens and young children. However, Taki goes back in time and helps Mitsuha and her friends save Itomori before Comet Tiamat hits again, preventing them from dying this time.
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Creepy Crawly
Are there bedbugs?
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No but there are flies.
In a few scenes a fly lands on Elio, Nothing graphic.
Just for the people who don’t like seeing bugs on people.
In a few scenes a fly lands on Elio, Nothing graphic.
Just for the people who don’t like seeing bugs on people.
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Death
Does a non-human character die?
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A dead fish that was caught at around 25:00
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Disability
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Drugs/Alcohol
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Family
Does a parent die?
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no a parent does not die
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Does someone cheat?
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Elio has a sort of girlfriend and doesnt tell her when he starts dating Oliver and SPOILER ALERT! Oliver has a girlfriend back home who in the end of the film we find out that he is getting married to
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Fear
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Just Elio, shaving his non-existing mustache.
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Is someone possessed?
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Not really possession, but noteworthy: the plot of the film is about how the protagonists switch bodies, but not of their own volition. They eventually find a way to communicate with each other so they can cope with the body-switching.
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Is there a shower scene?
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not specifically showers but lots of water/ swimming
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Gross
Does someone vomit?
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It scared the s**t out of me 'cause it was so unexpected
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Is there audio gore?
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goes with vomit warning, around 1:49 Elio throws up and you can hear the sound for a few seconds.
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Is there defecation?
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No but in the book Elio and Oliver poop with each other to prove their love 🌝.
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Does someone spit?
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elio like spits out vomit around 1h 50 when oliver and the lady are dancing, super big emetephobe but it only really jumpscared me tbh
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Large-scale Violence
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Law Enforcement
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LGBTQ+
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Is there bisexual cheating?
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Both Elio and Oliver cheat on each other with Females.
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Loss
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Medical
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Is there a hospital scene?
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user13396 again where the hell is this coming from
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Mental Health
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[Spoiler] Several people are talking about suicide et one of them try to do so.
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Does someone attempt suicide?
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Does someone have an eating disorder?
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One of the protagonists jokes that he cant get enough of eggs and that he cant stop eating them, if he has more then one.
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Does someone say "I'll kill myself"?
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not exactly, but elio does say to oliver f**k you'll kill me if you do that" in a sarcastic way
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Is there body dysmorphia?
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There's a thirty second scene were Elio looks at himself in the mirror and kind of winces but that's up to interpretation
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Elio dissociates when watching Oliver dance with a female (most likely due to jealousy). He also dissociates in his bedroom, likely thinking about Oliver, in that same scene he begins to touch himself but that’s not the point. Yes, there is dissociation.
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Are there anxiety attacks?
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Elio starts to cry and seems to be very emotional when Oliver's joining him in the attic.
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Does someone have a meltdown?
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Elio starts crying randomly on Oliver when he remembers Oliver will leave soon.
He also cried at the end of the movie but it wasn’t as serious as he did when he cried the first time.
He also cried at the end of the movie but it wasn’t as serious as he did when he cried the first time.
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Is there misophonia?
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lot of loud kissing
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Noxious
Is there shakey cam?
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YMMV, but it was fairly mild from what I recall. My partner who gets nausea and headaches from shaky cam didn't have a problem with this film.
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Are there flashing lights or images?
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Not necessarily flashing, but there's a scene where the colours are brightly distorted.
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Paranoia
Is the fourth wall broken?
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At the very end, Elio look into the camera for a couple of seconds but doesn't say anything.
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Is someone watched without knowing?
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Elio watches Oliver from his window briefly and begins to touch himself
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Pregnancy
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Prejudice
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Does an LGBT person die?
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No LGBT characters die. Also, there's no mention of HIV/AIDS despite being a film about gay/bisexual men in the 80s - which is kind of refreshing.
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Is a minority is misrepresented?
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You could argue that gay men are misrepresented, because of the age gap of the relationship.
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Both main characters are Jewish but nothing happens to either because of it
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Is there hate speech?
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A character briefly describes getting sent away/ getting treatment if their parents found out they were gay
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Race
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Relationships
Is there a large age gap?
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A 17 year old with a 24 year old. The 24 year old is also involved with a girl whose age is unspecified but who is likely younger than him but older than 18.
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Religious
Is religion discussed?
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Being Jew is mentioned but nothing to get offended about.
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Sex
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Are there incestuous relationships?
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Is there sexual content?
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Some scenes do get quite graphic.
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Are there nude scenes?
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some of the statues in the intro credits have genitalia out
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Sexism
Is a male character ridiculed for crying?
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Quite the opposite actually. Elio’s parents are very loving towards him while
He’s dealing with heartbreak.
He’s dealing with heartbreak.
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Sickness
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Social
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Spoiler
Does it have a sad ending?
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[SPOILERS] The lovers do not stay together in the end. However, to me, the ending was still hopeful. You have the sense that the relationship has been a positive experience overall, and Elio has his whole life ahead of him to meet other people and continue to explore his sexuality.
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Vehicular
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Does a car honk or tires screech?
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It honks, but it's standing still
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Is someone hit by a car?
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No, but if you pay attention at one point Elio nearly accidentally crashes into a female background character with his bike which wasn’t scripted.
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Violence
Is there blood/gore?
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A character gets a pretty intense nosebleed.
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