Call Me By Your Name

Movie • 2017 • Drama  

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In 1980s Italy, a relationship begins between seventeen-year-old teenage Elio and the older adult man hired as his father's research assistant.
This movie contains 23 potentially triggering events.
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Does the dog die?
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Abandonment
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Is a child abandoned by a parent?
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Is an animal abandoned?
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Abuse
Are there abusive parents?
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There is no abuse in the movie whatsoever.
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Is someone stalked?
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TFMD
Elio becomes infatuated with Oliver and indulges in some mildly stalker-like behaviour (eg. sneaking into Oliver's room to put Oliver's boxer shorts over his face). It is presented as benign, never turns controlling or menacing, and Oliver is mostly flattered.
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Is there domestic violence?
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Is a woman brutalized for spectacle?
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There is no abuse in the movie whatsoever.
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Is someone gaslighted?
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Is someone abused with a belt?
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Is a child abused?
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The movie's about a romantic relationship between a 17 year old and a 24 year old
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Addiction
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ilomilo12
Cigarettes, but that's it.
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Is there addiction?
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Indieeclipseeeeee
No one abuses alcohol but there is a scene where the 2 main characters are drunk and one throws up rather suddenly
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Animal
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MariaPerez
The fish in the patio scene
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Does a horse die?
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Does an animal die?
(besides a dog, cat or horse)
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xaM003
No, but a fish is carried towards the house likely to be cooked later
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Are animals abused?
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MariaPerez
An alive fish is being carried to the kitchen by a man with bare hands.
You can see the fish opening and closing the mouth trying to breathe. I loved the movie but this scene made me look away.
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MilesGwenStacyMorales
Dead fish that was caught at around 25:00 when Elio is sitting at a table and writing. Elio makes bubbling sounds with the fish.
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Is an animal sad?
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Are rabbits harmed?
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Does a cat die?
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Does a pet die?
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Does a dragon die?
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Are there spiders?
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Are there alligators/crocodiles??
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Are there snakes?
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Are there sharks?
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Are there bugs?
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Indieeclipseeeeee
There are bugs surrounding many of the scenes, as this is Italy in the summer, but no graphic up close bug shots
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Assault
Does a woman get slapped?
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Is someone drugged?
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Is there pedophilia?
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In some places the age 17 is legally no longer “underage” but, in most states it is not. So yes, Literally the entire movie.
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Is someone held under water?
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Is rape mentioned?
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Is someone beaten up by a bully?
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Is someone restrained?
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Dreamscape
The movie is a romance between a 17 year old and a 24 year old
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Is someone's mouth covered?
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Bodily Harm
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f dot ahm
There is a seconds-long-shot of Elio shaving his barely-there mustache in front of a mirror.
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Are any hands damaged?
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Are there dislocations?
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Is there throat mutilation?
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Does someone struggle to breathe?
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Is there decapitation?
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Is there cannibalism?
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no but Armie Hammer is a Cannibal
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Is someone crushed to death?
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Is someone choked?
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Is someone burned alive?
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Is someone buried alive?
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Is there body horror?
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Is there amputation?
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Does a head get squashed?
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Is there Achilles Tendon injury?
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Is there a hanging?
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Does someone asphyxiate?
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Are any teeth damaged?
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Does someone become unconscious?
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Does someone break a bone?
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Does someone have a seizure?
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Is there genital trauma/mutilation?
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Is there finger/toe mutilation?
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Is someone tortured?
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Does someone fall down stairs?
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Does someone fall to their death?
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Is there eye mutilation?
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Is someone stabbed?
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Is there excessive gore?
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Children
Is an infant abducted?
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Does a kid die?
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Anonymous
24 yo has a relationship w a 17yo
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Creepy Crawly
Are there bedbugs?
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No but there are flies.
In a few scenes a fly lands on Elio, Nothing graphic.
Just for the people who don’t like seeing bugs on people.
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Death
Does someone sacrifice themselves?
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Does a major character die?
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MilesGwenStacyMorales
A dead fish that was caught at around 25:00
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Does someone die?
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Disability
Is the r-slur used?
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Drugs/Alcohol
Does someone overdose?
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Family
Is someone kidnapped?
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Does a parent die?
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no a parent does not die

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Does someone cheat?
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KaiLemhagen
Elio has a sort of girlfriend and doesnt tell her when he starts dating Oliver and SPOILER ALERT! Oliver has a girlfriend back home who in the end of the film we find out that he is getting married to
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Is a child's toy destroyed?
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Does a family member die?
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Fear
Are there jump scares?
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Is someone possessed?
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Are there ghosts?
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Are there clowns?
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Are there natural bodies of water?
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Is trypophobic content shown?
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Are there razors?
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Just Elio, shaving his non-existing mustache.
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peachess420
not specifically showers but lots of water/ swimming
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Are there mannequins?
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Gross
Does someone wet/soil themselves?
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Does someone vomit?
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Near the end of the film, Armie Hammer's character dances with a woman while Timothee Chalamet's character watches. When we cut from Armie dancing with the woman in front of a door to Timothee, he suddenly and unexpectedly vomits. It's over fairly quick, but surprising and very visible.
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Is someone eaten?
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No but in the book Elio and Oliver poop with each other to prove their love 🌝.
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Does someone spit?
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Is there audio gore?
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Is there farting?
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Large-scale Violence
Are there 9/11 depictions?
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Law Enforcement
Is there copaganda?
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Is there incarceration?
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LGBTQ+
Is there deadnaming or birthnaming?
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Are there transphobic slurs?
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Is an LGBT+ person outed?
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Both Elio and Oliver cheat on each other with Females.
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Loss
Is a priceless artifact destroyed?
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Medical
Is electro-therapy used?
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Are needles/syringes used?
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Is there a mental institution scene?
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Is there a hospital scene?
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Is there menstruation?
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Does someone have cancer?
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Mental Health
Does someone suffer from PTSD?
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Does someone have a mental illness?
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Does someone self harm?
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Is autism misrepresented?
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Is a mentally ill person violent?
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Elio dissociates when watching Oliver dance with a female (most likely due to jealousy). He also dissociates in his bedroom, likely thinking about Oliver, in that same scene he begins to touch himself but that’s not the point. Yes, there is dissociation.
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Is there D.I.D. misrepresentation?
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Is reality unstable or unhinged?
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Elio starts crying randomly on Oliver when he remembers Oliver will leave soon.

He also cried at the end of the movie but it wasn’t as serious as he did when he cried the first time.
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Is there misophonia?
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fkns
lot of loud kissing
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Is there ABA therapy?
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Is there body dysphoria?
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AdamGroffsjacket
There's a thirty second scene were Elio looks at himself in the mirror and kind of winces but that's up to interpretation
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stalesourdough
not exactly, but elio does say to oliver "fuck, you'll kill me if you do that" in a sarcastic way
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Bibisquad
Elio starts to cry and seems to be very emotional when Oliver's joining him in the attic.
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Is there a claustrophobic scene?
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Does someone have an eating disorder?
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Is there autism specific abuse?
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Noxious
Are there sudden loud noises?
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Are there underwater scenes?
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Does a baby cry?
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Is there shakey cam?
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TFMD
YMMV, but it was fairly mild from what I recall. My partner who gets nausea and headaches from shaky cam didn't have a problem with this film.
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Is there screaming?
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Is there obscene language/gestures?
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AdamGroffsjacket
Not necessarily flashing, but there's a scene where the colours are brightly distorted.
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Paranoia
Is someone watched without knowing?
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AdamGroffsjacket
At the very end, Elio look into the camera for a couple of seconds but doesn't say anything.
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Pregnancy
Is a baby stillborn?
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Is there childbirth?
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Are there abortions?
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Are there babies or unborn children?
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Does someone miscarry?
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Does a pregnant person die?
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Prejudice
Are there fat jokes?
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Does the black guy die first?
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Are there homophobic slurs?
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Indieeclipseeeeee
Both main characters are Jewish but nothing happens to either because of it
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Are there "Man in a dress" jokes?
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Is there hate speech?
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Anonymous
A character briefly describes getting sent away/ getting treatment if their parents found out they were gay
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Is a minority is misrepresented?
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TFMD
No LGBT characters die. Also, there's no mention of HIV/AIDS despite being a film about gay/bisexual men in the 80s - which is kind of refreshing.
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Are there n-words?
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Is there aphobia?
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Race
Is there blackface?
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Relationships
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xaM003
A 17 year old with a 24 year old. The 24 year old is also involved with a girl whose age is unspecified but who is likely younger than him but older than 18.
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Religious
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0
Being Jew is mentioned but nothing to get offended about.
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Are there demons or Hell?
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Sex
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Indieeclipseeeeee
Some scenes do get quite graphic.
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Is someone sexually objectified?
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Anonymous
some of the statues in the intro credits have genitalia out
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Is there bestiality?
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Is there BDSM?
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Does someone lose their virginity?
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Are there incestuous relationships?
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Sexism
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JillCowan
Quite the opposite actually. Elio’s parents are very loving towards him while
He’s dealing with heartbreak.
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Sickness
Does someone have a stroke?
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Does someone have a chronic illness?
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Is there dementia/Alzheimer's?
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Is someone terminally ill?
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Social
Is someone homeless?
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Are there anti-abortion themes?
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Are there fat suits?
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Is existentialism debated?
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Spoiler
Is Santa (et al) spoiled?
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Are there end credit scenes?
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TFMD
[SPOILERS] The lovers do not stay together in the end. However, to me, the ending was still hopeful. You have the sense that the relationship has been a positive experience overall, and Elio has his whole life ahead of him to meet other people and continue to explore his sexuality.
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Vehicular
Does a car crash?
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Anonymous
It honks, but it's standing still
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Does a plane crash?
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No, but if you pay attention at one point Elio nearly accidentally crashes into a female background character with his bike which wasn’t scripted.
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Violence
Is there a nuclear explosion?
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Is there blood/gore?
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Anonymous
A character gets a pretty intense nosebleed.
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Does someone drown?
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Is there gun violence?
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