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TV Show • 2018 • Drama
ReportA dangerously charming, intensely obsessive young man goes to extreme measures to insert himself into the lives of those he is transfixed by.
This tv show contains 93 potentially triggering events.
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Your Triggers
Yes
6
No
122
Abandonment
Yes
4
No
0
Is a child abandoned by a parent?
22 supporters
Yes
47
No
9
4
Cavalier_Avocado
Joe leaves Henry on the steps of a couple he knows before he leaves town.
4 comments | Add comment
Yes
0
No
6
Abuse
Yes
12
No
0
Yes
8
No
1
Is someone stalked?
15 supporters
Yes
155
No
0
12
TFMD
Yes. The focus of the series (and book) is Joe's obsession with Beck, a woman whom he casually meets, then stalks and eventually dates. [SPOILERS] Joe later kills Beck after she begins to discover his secrets. Although Joe is characterised as creepy and villainous, some viewers sympathise with him and describe him as a compelling, complex character. Some reviewers find that the show/book romanticises stalking, while others praise it as a cautionary tale that warns about the dangers of obsession. Regardless, if stalking could be a trigger for you, please take care.
8 comments | Add comment
Yes
107
No
11
7
TFMD
A secondary character abuses his girlfriend and son. And [SPOILERS] Joe eventually murders his girlfriend Beck.
4 comments | Add comment
Yes
0
No
5
Yes
38
No
10
8
violetbooklover
Yes- this is the entire premise. Joe grows up in an abusive and neglectful environment from his parents and later by Mooney. He had no healthy example for love and care in his youth.
2 comments | Add comment
Is someone gaslighted?
26 supporters
Yes
119
No
10
12
This is basically gaslighting: the series
3 comments | Add comment
Yes
0
No
4
Yes
106
No
9
3
catmeres
Another character is explicitly abused other than flashbacks of the main character
8 comments | Add comment
Addiction
Yes
119
No
4
3
series_of_unfortunate_events
One character is revealed to be a drug dealer. Another struggles with substance abuse, overdoses, and is forced to detox.
5 comments | Add comment
Is there addiction?
7 supporters
Yes
108
No
6
2
Rouge
There is discussion of previous drug addiction; there is depiction of withdrawal; there is frequent comparison to obsession with a person and drug addiction.
5 comments | Add comment
Does someone abuse alcohol?
5 supporters
Yes
111
No
10
2
series_of_unfortunate_events
Ron acts abusively, particularly when he is drunk.
2 comments | Add comment
Animal
Yes
0
No
13
Yes
1
No
89
Yes
103
No
42
20
anne4
A squirrel gets violently murdered on screen in episode 5 of season 3.
6 comments | Add comment
Yes
40
No
67
Yes
0
No
85
0
Nope
1 comment | Add comment
Is there a dead animal?
59 supporters
Yes
103
No
18
34
dontkillanimals
In season 3 episode 5 a squirrel is killed. Its very graphic and it’s screaming. Don’t know if its animated or real because it looks so fucking real. Big Trigger
13 comments | Add comment
Yes
0
No
6
Yes
0
No
12
Yes
3
No
93
Yes
2
No
34
Yes
2
No
83
Are there spiders?
26 supporters
Yes
18
No
55
3
milkboy63
A brief shot of a small spider can be shown over someone’s body in S3 E2 at around the 30:11 mark.
1 comment | Add comment
Yes
0
No
7
Yes
0
No
74
Yes
0
No
8
Are there bugs?
17 supporters
Yes
38
No
49
3
Anonymous
Bugs crawl over a decomposed dead body in season 3
1 comment | Add comment
Assault
Yes
9
No
1
Is someone drugged?
16 supporters
Yes
43
No
9
1
the mc attempts to drug someone with intent to make them od. this is in s3
4 comments | Add comment
Is there pedophilia?
61 supporters
Yes
10
No
12
0
zombzvalentine
There's a few comments on it, but if I remember correctly nothing is explicitly shown or done.
2 comments | Add comment
Is someone held under water?
10 supporters
Yes
12
No
13
0
Renee28
S3
MC held under ice water in sink for a few moments
1 comment | Add comment
Yes
7
No
2
Yes
10
No
1
Is someone restrained?
11 supporters
Yes
46
No
6
0
Gali
S1
E1
Within the last two or so minutes of the episode a character is shown being held hostage and covered in blood.
3 comments | Add comment
Yes
119
No
14
9
Equivamp
In season two the childhood sexual abuse of an important character by the family's au pair is discussed multiple times. Another character is depicted as serially drugging and sexually assaulting young, typically underaged girls, taking pictures of them while they're unconscious. It shows him luring in the fifteen-year-old younger sister of a previous victim and giving her a drink spiked with GHB, but he is stopped from doing anything else to her.
13 comments | Add comment
Yes
6
No
0
Yes
1
No
7
Yes
4
No
43
2
csbyron1
S4
E3
Joe is VERY hesitant to consent but eventually agrees
1 comment | Add comment
Bodily Harm
Yes
60
No
11
Are any hands damaged?
11 supporters
Yes
7
No
0
0
leah.blake
Throughout the show a fingers are sliced off on purpose by another person, hands are cut (on accident) and a dead bodies finger is broken.
1 comment | Add comment
Yes
0
No
3
Is there throat mutilation?
13 supporters
Yes
6
No
0
0
leah.blake
S2
A character is found to have been killed with her neck slit in the episode after there is a scene showing the person doing this action. (season 2 episode 9 and 10) in an episode. in the final episode of season 2 it is shown in a flashback that a babysitters neck is slit and this is also shown on screen.
1 comment | Add comment
Does someone struggle to breathe?
13 supporters
Yes
63
No
6
3
BetterBeGryffinhore
A character goes into anaphylactic shock and struggles to breathe.
3 comments | Add comment
Yes
3
No
4
Is there cannibalism?
22 supporters
Yes
10
No
54
1
amandacat
Season 2 episode 2 at about 37 minutes, the main character chops up a body and it is interspersed with another character cooking in another season.
4 comments | Add comment
Is someone crushed to death?
15 supporters
Yes
2
No
26
0
spoiler:
in season 1 joe holds a mallet about to smash benjis head in after killing him but doesn’t
in season 1 joe holds a mallet about to smash benjis head in after killing him but doesn’t
1 comment | Add comment
Yes
8
No
1
Is someone burned alive?
20 supporters
Yes
3
No
65
3
violetbooklover
No but corpses are burned
2 comments | Add comment
Is someone buried alive?
12 supporters
Yes
76
No
12
4
Ljlj
A character is buried alive after being presumed dead but it only shows her waking up and leaving.
2 comments | Add comment
Is there body horror?
27 supporters
Yes
28
No
10
1
Cavalier_Avocado
Not sure if this counts, but Joe does things to people after he kills them. I won’t go into detail but there’s a very prominent scene in s2 and the end of s3.
1 comment | Add comment
Is there amputation?
12 supporters
Yes
84
No
16
14
shawty
a finger is cut off
9 comments | Add comment
Does a head get squashed?
1 supporters
Yes
22
No
51
3
Anonymous
More than once the face of a cadaver is smashed with a mallet to remove dental record. Mallet is shown swinging downward, but impact is not shown onscreen
3 comments | Add comment
Is there Achilles Tendon injury?
1 supporters
Yes
12
No
21
3
Flanners
S4
E10
When the bodyguard comes into the plane hangar he is caught off guard from behind and sliced in the ankle. Over quickly but blood present
2 comments | Add comment
Is there a hanging?
21 supporters
Yes
64
No
29
7
Season 3, episode 4.
8 comments | Add comment
Does someone asphyxiate?
15 supporters
Yes
19
No
9
0
figcluster
S4
E10
S4E10 21:20
1 comment | Add comment
Are any teeth damaged?
23 supporters
Yes
89
No
12
11
series_of_unfortunate_events
The main character decides he needs to smash a dead man's teeth so there's no dental records from which the body could be identified.
4 comments | Add comment
Does someone become unconscious?
3 supporters
Yes
34
No
6
1
figcluster
S4
E8
Marienne is drugged repeatedly so that she loses consciousness.
5 comments | Add comment
Does someone break a bone?
13 supporters
Yes
81
No
13
5
pixelghost
season 3 episode 2 at around 30:40
[slight spoilers]
Joe has to break a woman’s finger to get a ring off. you can tell when he’s about to do it (he kinda vaguely implies needing to do it while talking to Love) so you have a few seconds to mute/look away or just skip ahead to 31:06. this very specific type of gore/body horror is a huge panic attack trigger for me and i luckily managed to catch it before it fully happened. good luck and stay safe everyone.
[slight spoilers]
Joe has to break a woman’s finger to get a ring off. you can tell when he’s about to do it (he kinda vaguely implies needing to do it while talking to Love) so you have a few seconds to mute/look away or just skip ahead to 31:06. this very specific type of gore/body horror is a huge panic attack trigger for me and i luckily managed to catch it before it fully happened. good luck and stay safe everyone.
5 comments | Add comment
Yes
0
No
74
Is there genital trauma/mutilation?
1 supporters
Yes
25
No
44
3
chachanowyall
S4
E7
The genital mutilation is actually episode 7, not 8. The genitals are not shown, but it is pretty clear what is happening.
1 comment | Add comment
Is there finger/toe mutilation?
27 supporters
Yes
94
No
10
8
Peachii
Season 2, Episode 2, at around 13:30
7 comments | Add comment
Is someone tortured?
1 supporters
Yes
107
No
10
7
series_of_unfortunate_events
Joe holds people captive, manipulates them, and enacts physical violence.
5 comments | Add comment
Does someone fall down stairs?
3 supporters
Yes
27
No
10
0
bananawagon
Happens in season 1.
2 comments | Add comment
Does someone fall to their death?
6 supporters
Yes
78
No
11
3
MandyCandy
He is pushed
4 comments | Add comment
Is there eye mutilation?
1 supporters
Yes
42
No
15
5
Episode and time stamp for the eye mutilation?
2 comments | Add comment
Yes
8
No
0
Is there excessive gore?
49 supporters
Yes
33
No
12
2
rainbowfairy221
Pretty much all episodes have some pretty bad gore.
4 comments | Add comment
Children
Yes
3
No
26
Does a kid die?
25 supporters
Yes
2
No
69
3
In a hallucination during S3E3 a baby is flatlining on an EKG, with the mother screaming and crying in the background. The scene is brief and is only a figment of the characters imagination.
2 comments | Add comment
Is a minor sexualized?
58 supporters
Yes
25
No
13
0
AJP1123
S2
Season two involves a character who drugs and rapes women and underage girls. The character Ellie who is 15 is sexually by him but this is never presented as something that is ok or normal.
1 comment | Add comment
Creepy Crawly
Yes
1
No
6
Death
Yes
2
No
25
Yes
8
No
1
Yes
6
No
22
Yes
15
No
1
Disability
Yes
0
No
33
Is someone disabled played by able-bodied?
14 supporters
Yes
0
No
5
-1
shaymin
depends on your definition of disabled, as the main character is mentally ill but not technically classified as "disabled", but rather seems to be a psychopath.
1 comment | Add comment
Drugs/Alcohol
Does someone overdose?
9 supporters
Yes
31
No
10
2
sstowe
S4
E9
at the very end it’s implied marienne did overdose she’s found unconscious next to an empty pill bottle
4 comments | Add comment
Family
Is someone kidnapped?
5 supporters
Yes
100
No
6
4
Anonymous
many people
4 comments | Add comment
Does a parent die?
6 supporters
Yes
86
No
9
3
Season 3 basically everyone who gets killed is a parent
5 comments | Add comment
Does someone cheat?
12 supporters
Yes
110
No
5
7
maririce
There's a ton of cheating
9 comments | Add comment
Is a child's toy destroyed?
14 supporters
Yes
15
No
38
7
violetbooklover
Paco’s book gets ripped and destroyed by his abusive stepfather
2 comments | Add comment
Does a family member die?
10 supporters
Yes
4
No
5
0
Gothy17
S1
A character tells people that her dad died, but he, in fact, did not
1 comment | Add comment
Fear
Are there jumpscares?
28 supporters
Yes
63
No
20
1
Starchy
S1
sort of - there's lots of tension and nerve-racking scenes but it's not on the level of anything jumping out at the camera or anything like that :)
1 comment | Add comment
Is someone possessed?
8 supporters
Yes
3
No
67
-1
csbyron1
S4
E8
*MAJOR S4 SPOILERS* Arguably, Joe's alter possesses him while he is abusing Marianne and killing others
1 comment | Add comment
Are there ghosts?
5 supporters
Yes
43
No
39
8
Peachii
In Season 2, the main character hallucinates his dead ex-girlfriend.
4 comments | Add comment
Yes
0
No
77
Yes
8
No
0
Yes
0
No
8
Yes
6
No
18
Is there a shower scene?
5 supporters
Yes
67
No
10
0
Gali
S1
E1
There is one shower scene after a character breaks into another characters house and has to hide in the shower when the come home, but they are not found and there is no violence in the scene.
2 comments | Add comment
Yes
2
No
25
Gross
Does someone wet/soil themselves?
11 supporters
Yes
1
No
44
1
Starchy
no, but someone pees into a jar because they can't get to a bathroom in S1E6
1 comment | Add comment
Does someone vomit?
56 supporters
Yes
189
No
11
40
DecrepitWitch
Jesus christ it was ridiculous. It's like every time a character felt a strong emotion they threw up. It just seemed excessive and lazy. Be more creative people! And you'd think he'd be used to killing and dismembering people by now. Get a grip, Joe.
34 comments | Add comment
Yes
0
No
7
Yes
0
No
6
Yes
52
No
13
Is there audio gore?
28 supporters
Yes
47
No
18
3
Equivamp
In season two, the sound of a throat being slashed off screen is heard.
2 comments | Add comment
Yes
0
No
6
Large-scale Violence
Are there 9/11 depictions?
4 supporters
Yes
1
No
29
0
Gali
S1
E1
A patrol officer threatens another character (who is not on patrol) 23 minutes in. It is in a home environment and there are no uniforms.
1 comment | Add comment
Law Enforcement
Is there copaganda?
14 supporters
Yes
25
No
24
7
capybaraclown
Can someone explain how there is copaganda?? Police are pretty much seen as useless in this show which is why no one tries to call the cops on Joe.
1 comment | Add comment
Is there incarceration?
4 supporters
Yes
4
No
0
0
Doesn't actually go to prison but Delilah and Joe are put in a holding cell for having sex in public
1 comment | Add comment
LGBTQ+
Yes
0
No
10
Yes
0
No
9
Yes
0
No
8
Yes
0
No
5
Is there bisexual cheating?
16 supporters
Yes
27
No
8
4
csbyron1
S4
E2
Adam (pansexual) is cheating on Phoebe with a man
2 comments | Add comment
Loss
Is a priceless artifact destroyed?
2 supporters
Yes
2
No
5
1
Gali
S1
E1
An old book that was being preserved is ripped when taken home by a character (off screen) and later fixed by a bookstore clerk.
1 comment | Add comment
Medical
Yes
0
No
68
Are needles/syringes used?
18 supporters
Yes
76
No
17
7
AnaLoCascio
Season 1 Episode 6, around the 16 minute mark, Joe uses a sewing needle to try and stitch up a head injury. The actual process is not shown, but he is pictured with the needle stuck in forehead a minute later. This scene is over around the 18.5 minute mark.
10 comments | Add comment
Is there a mental institution scene?
16 supporters
Yes
6
No
61
5
Equivamp
No, but it's mentioned that the brother of Joe's ex is in one.
6 comments | Add comment
Is there a hospital scene?
7 supporters
Yes
79
No
9
0
Tvirus
Seasons 1,3,4 have hospital scenes
4 comments | Add comment
Yes
3
No
0
Does someone have cancer?
10 supporters
Yes
28
No
46
3
BetterBeGryffinhore
A character in season 2 is a cancer survivor, though.
4 comments | Add comment
Mental Health
Does someone suffer from PTSD?
26 supporters
Yes
27
No
8
1
figcluster
S4
In episode 6 or 7, a character is told that she may have PTSD (she does) and should get professional help.
2 comments | Add comment
Yes
10
No
0
Yes
76
No
16
2
meowllie
Sort of decipted self/harm in S2E4, when a character dies and it’s labeled as a suicide, with their wrist having a cut.
7 comments | Add comment
Yes
0
No
4
Is a mentally ill person violent?
17 supporters
Yes
75
No
7
15
zoolover
that is like. the entire show.
2 comments | Add comment
Yes
4
No
0
Is there D.I.D. misrepresentation?
12 supporters
Yes
30
No
15
3
he11sent
In Season Four Part Two the big twist is that Joe has an alter ego / has D.I.D and that’s how he didn’t know he was committing murders/kidnapping his ex, etc.
3 comments | Add comment
Yes
25
No
10
1
Starchy
in S1 someone pretends to fake a suicide attempt
6 comments | Add comment
Is reality unstable or unhinged?
10 supporters
Yes
7
No
0
0
Tvirus
S4
Season 2 and 4 especially. Joe sees Becks ghost a lot in the beginning of s2 and Joe is unstable in s4
1 comment | Add comment
Yes
3
No
0
Is there misophonia?
1 supporters
Yes
5
No
25
6
bellafurre
there’s eating scenes where sometimes it can be a bit noisy but I have misophonia pretty bad and it didn’t really effect me! no super messy eaters or breathing etc. but depends on your personal triggers
1 comment | Add comment
Yes
0
No
4
Yes
0
No
21
Is there body dysmorphia?
17 supporters
Yes
58
No
12
8
Bloop
Multiple characters are shown to be uncomfortable with their body, one reacts negatively to a comment about how she's gained some weight and that it "looks good on her," and one of the characters makes fun of another character's weight
2 comments | Add comment
Does someone say "I'll kill myself"?
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (1-800-273-8255)
15 supporters
Yes
31
No
10
0
csbyron1
S4
E4
Gemma jokes she wants to hang herself because a conversation is so boring
2 comments | Add comment
Are there anxiety attacks?
17 supporters
Yes
83
No
1
4
Nazetel
One of the characters gets locked in a store basement and panics.
4 comments | Add comment
Is there a claustrophobic scene?
14 supporters
Yes
76
No
8
5
series_of_unfortunate_events
Joe holds people captive in a transparent chamber meant to keep rare books in a controlled climate.
3 comments | Add comment
Does someone have an eating disorder?
22 supporters
Yes
84
No
10
10
series_of_unfortunate_events
One character exhibits restrictive behaviors and extensively documents everything she eats.
2 comments | Add comment
Yes
0
No
57
Yes
78
No
29
10
TheLadyCanidae
Season 3, Episode 4, 25:20, a character commits suicide. There is a warning at the beginning of the episode.
14 comments | Add comment
Noxious
Yes
3
No
1
Yes
2
No
1
Does a baby cry?
12 supporters
Yes
46
No
11
6
TheLadyCanidae
In Season 3, baby Henry is depicted crying throughout a lot of the episodes.
1 comment | Add comment
Yes
2
No
54
Is there screaming?
7 supporters
Yes
4
No
0
0
FoxG
pretty much all the time as characters are having their lives threatened a lot
1 comment | Add comment
Is there obscene language/gestures?
4 supporters
Yes
23
No
3
0
csbyron1
S4
E1
Plenty of cursing
2 comments | Add comment
Are there flashing lights or images?
23 supporters
Yes
48
No
10
0
csbyron1
S4
E8
During the montage sequence with Marianne, the lights often flicker
1 comment | Add comment
Paranoia
Is someone watched without knowing?
9 supporters
Yes
11
No
0
0
Gothy17
There is tons of it
4 comments | Add comment
Yes
1
No
24
Pregnancy
Yes
0
No
26
Is there childbirth?
14 supporters
Yes
22
No
42
7
BeaFitz
They don’t show the birth, but they do show the baby and mother right after giving birth, and cutting the umbilical cord
3 comments | Add comment
Yes
0
No
69
Yes
18
No
11
Does someone miscarry?
1 supporters
Yes
0
No
68
4
loveapologist
no miscarriage. there is a pregnancy scare but the character gets her period and realizes she was not pregnant. she did not miscarry.
1 comment | Add comment
Does a pregnant person die?
9 supporters
Yes
2
No
58
2
catmeres
A pregnant woman almost dies
1 comment | Add comment
Prejudice
Are there fat jokes?
27 supporters
Yes
50
No
15
1
Gustyo
In season two there are jokes about women using camera angles to obscure their size while using dating apps.
2 comments | Add comment
Yes
0
No
62
Yes
0
No
66
Yes
5
No
38
Yes
4
No
50
3
Anonymous
Someone asks a character who changed his name if he were “one of those self-hating Jews”
1 comment | Add comment
Yes
0
No
39
Is there hate speech?
18 supporters
Yes
48
No
10
1
csbyron1
S4
E1
Malcolm and his friends say a lot of offensive things about women and lower classes throughout the episode. We are not supposed to like these characters, though.
2 comments | Add comment
Yes
2
No
19
Does an LGBT person die?
24 supporters
Yes
89
No
12
7
series_of_unfortunate_events
A bisexual individual is shot.
5 comments | Add comment
Yes
8
No
41
Yes
0
No
50
Yes
0
No
13
Race
Yes
0
No
5
Relationships
Is there a large age gap?
21 supporters
Yes
10
No
13
2
Anonymous
Season three, love has an affair with a teenager
3 comments | Add comment
Religious
Yes
0
No
3
Yes
0
No
3
Sex
Is there sexual content?
33 supporters
Yes
105
No
3
1
Equivamp
About as gratuitous as it's allowed to get.
5 comments | Add comment
Is someone sexually objectified?
23 supporters
Yes
28
No
7
0
csbyron1
S4
E4
Roald has been taking secret photos of Kate
1 comment | Add comment
Are there nude scenes?
19 supporters
Yes
23
No
11
0
Gali
S1
E1
Partially nude scenes and sex shown on screen.
2 comments | Add comment
Yes
1
No
21
Yes
3
No
0
Yes
0
No
5
Are there incestuous relationships?
National Sexual Assault Hotline 800.656.4673
1 supporters
Add comment
Yes
1
No
68
Sexism
Yes
1
No
20
Sickness
Does someone have a stroke?
5 supporters
Yes
1
No
21
0
Tvirus
Mooney had a stroke but it isn't shown on screen
1 comment | Add comment
Does someone have a chronic illness?
6 supporters
Yes
5
No
18
0
Gothy17
S1
Peach talks about having re-occuring medical issues involving her bladder(?)
1 comment | Add comment
Is there dementia/Alzheimer's?
15 supporters
Yes
0
No
19
0
csbyron1
S4
E2
No, but someone threatens Joe to not say anything by telling him "you're about to have a severe case of Alzheimers"
1 comment | Add comment
Is someone terminally ill?
11 supporters
Yes
1
No
4
0
FoxG
S2
not sure if terminally but in flashbacks it is mentioned that loves husband died of a sickness
1 comment | Add comment
Social
Is someone homeless?
4 supporters
Yes
6
No
15
1
csbyron1
S4
E2
Background characters
4 comments | Add comment
Yes
0
No
3
Yes
2
No
20
Yes
1
No
2
Spoiler
Yes
0
No
54
Yes
2
No
1
Does it have a sad ending?
1 supporters
Yes
65
No
8
-1
csbyron1
S4
E10
depends who you're rooting for I suppose
1 comment | Add comment
Vehicular
Does a car crash?
8 supporters
Yes
64
No
10
1
series_of_unfortunate_events
Somebody crashes while driving under the influence and sustains a pretty bad gash on his forehead
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Yes
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No
9
Yes
0
No
68
Yes
1
No
50
Violence
Yes
0
No
56
Is there blood/gore?
30 supporters
Yes
95
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series_of_unfortunate_events
Lots of violence, including blunt force weapons, fistfights, and stabbing.
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Does someone drown?
10 supporters
Yes
58
No
14
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series_of_unfortunate_events
Joe watches a video where someone is drowned during a frat hazing.
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Is there gun violence?
9 supporters
Yes
61
No
6
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series_of_unfortunate_events
One character is shot in the leg. Another is killed offscreen.
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