The Ref
Movie • 1994 • Comedy
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A mother repeatedly smacks her son on the head, shoulder, etc when he does anything that annoys her. It doesn’t seem to hurt the kid too badly but it is physical. The mother is called out for hitting her son and stops.
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No physical violence, but the family has MANY loud, emotional, insult-filled arguments. Especially the lead couple.
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Does someone abuse alcohol?
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A few people drink alcohol, but the one drunk person is a side character only shown for a few brief scenes.
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Is there addiction?
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One person lied about quitting smoking cigarettes. Someone else smokes on and off throughout the film.
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Is there a dead animal?
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In the scene where the robber is facing off with the guard dog, Cannibal, there is something on the floor that is shown a few times very briefly. I’ve seen the movie multiple times and can’t figure out if it’s some kind of stuffed toy or a dead animal. Since the dog is a guard dog and is supposed to be scary, it wouldn’t surprise me if it was meant to be an animal.
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Assault
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Is someone restrained?
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The main couple is restrained several times with various materials (bungee cords, sheets, etc) and other characters are restrained in a similar fashion later.
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Is someone tortured?
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No, but hostages are tied up in various ways for a good portion of the film.
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Children
Is an infant abducted?
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No babies in the movie. A teenager steals the wooden baby Jesus from the town lawn nativity before the movie takes place. It is mentioned repeatedly and the doll is shown for a second.
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Death
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Is a child's toy destroyed?
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the lady has antique dolls. and the man is swinging one around and then rips its head off and throws it. no one really cares
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Does someone cheat?
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Various people's cheating is discussed, but no cheating is shown.
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Is there a claustrophobic scene?
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One person is shut in a closet for a while, but is not shown much while in there. And he's angry about being put there, but not claustrophobic.
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Does someone attempt suicide?
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Does someone die by suicide?
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Noxious
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Are there flashing lights or images?
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Police car lights are shown throughout the movie.
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Paranoia
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Pregnancy
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Is there hate speech?
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One homophobic slur, and one weight-shaming moment.
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Are there homophobic slurs?
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One off-hand comment about someone's [bundle of sticks f-word] dogs humping.
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Are there fat jokes?
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No, but a slightly heavier kid is briefly weight-shamed by an extended family member.
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Sex
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A character and his mother have a very strange relationship that borders on emotional incest at times. The unhealthy dynamic is called out during an argument between the man’s wife and his mother. The son eventually sets boundaries in a very satisfying way and the ending of the movie is hopeful and happy in this regard.
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Is there sexual content?
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Additionally, there is a scene where a character’s sexual arousal is mentioned because it happens under relatively unconventional circumstances. It’s not super detailed and is more hinted at than anything else.
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Spoiler
Is Santa (et al) spoiled?
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A man in town dresses up as Santa and goes door to door to drop off fruitcake and visit kids. Over the course of the movie he’s drinking alcohol and gets progressively more drunk and belligerent. He becomes unkind to the children he’s visiting and resorts to public urination at one point by p*****g in someone’s bushes in their front yard. The children seem pretty upset.
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Is someone hit by a car?
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No, but there's a very close call when some of the main characters run a stop sign.
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Violence
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A leg with a bloody dog bite is briefly shown.
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Is there gun violence?
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A hand gun is used throughout the film to threaten people, but never fired.
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