The entire book/movie is the narrator gaslighting the viewers into rationalizing his pedophilic actions.
Dolores herself is groomed and manipulated into thinking that the "relationship" with Humbert is ok.
Dolores's mom is gaslit into thinking that Humbert loves her and after she discovers his journal, is told that it's "for a story."
No one actually v*s, but you do see blood projectiled out of someone's mouth after being shot. I have emetophobia and it was slightly triggering for me
Yes, though mostly obscured. Fortunately the shots with Dolores have an adult body double.
Quilty's tiny pedo schlong is shown when his bathrobe unravels while he's running from Humbert.
We don’t see the crash happen but we see the aftermath. Skip from about 33:50-35:40, right after a man walks out the front door if you don’t want to see the crashed car, officers, etc.