Because This Is My First Life
TV Show • 2017 • Comedy
ReportNam Se-Hee is a single man in his early 30's. He has chosen to not marry. He owns his home, but he owes a lot on his mortgage. Yoon Ji-Ho is a single woman in her early 30's. She does not own a home and envies those that do. She has given up on dating due to her financial struggles. Yoon Ji-Ho begins to live at Nam Se-Hee’s house. They become housemates.
This tv show contains 8 potentially triggering events.
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Abandonment
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cecilie67
One time, a cat gets its food later than it should. SPOILER
Before the story starts, the cat has at some point been abandoned by earlier owners. But the cat lives happily throughout the 16 episodes.
Before the story starts, the cat has at some point been abandoned by earlier owners. But the cat lives happily throughout the 16 episodes.
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cecilie67
I believe there is only one slap; from a girlfriend to a boyfriend.
But there are very dominant and uncomfortable family relations, shouting and belittling, and a father who has the habit of turning over the table (with all the hard-work prepared food on it). This is demonstrated already within the first couple of minutes of episode one.
But there are very dominant and uncomfortable family relations, shouting and belittling, and a father who has the habit of turning over the table (with all the hard-work prepared food on it). This is demonstrated already within the first couple of minutes of episode one.
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Is someone gaslighted?
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membree711
After coworker assaults main character, higher ups attempt to gaslight her into believing she's being dramatic and not that big a deal. She stands up to them.
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Addiction
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Does someone abuse alcohol?
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If getting drunk a lot for some weeks count as abuse, then definitely yes. Alcohol is used to cope with sad feelings, in general.
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Assault
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I don't think so. But there's talk of someone who kidnaps women.
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bearybeom
Main character is assaulted by a coworker who is drunk, I believe it’s in one of the early episodes.
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Children
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Death
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cecilie67
ONly the usual "I won't talk about my feelings, they may make the situation awkward" kind of thing. Noble Idiocy. But nobody are permanently damaged that way.
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Does someone cheat?
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The man who tries to r*pe the main character at the beginning does so while having a girlfriend.
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Are there mannequins?
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Actually, in episode 16, a man is having a polite conversation with a headless mannequin (who doesn't answer, of course) while his girlfriend is trying out clothes.
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Large-scale Violence
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Law Enforcement
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Medical
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Is there a hospital scene?
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membree711
Also a character gives birth, we only see visitation after birth has been successful.
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Is there autism specific abuse?
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cecilie67
One of the main characters is the most obvious example of a K-drama character being "on the spectrum" without it being mentioned, that I know off. He is very nice.
It does not include meltdowns or anything resembling that. (He has some weeks were he is *very* sad, bit it is not autism-related, I'd say).
It does not include meltdowns or anything resembling that. (He has some weeks were he is *very* sad, bit it is not autism-related, I'd say).
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Does someone attempt suicide?
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Does someone say "I'll kill myself"?
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Does someone die by suicide?
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Noxious
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Mostly innuendo, but yes. There are especially some men who keep talking disrespectfully of women, also guessing the bra-size of a co-worker.
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Are there flashing lights or images?
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There is a scene at a club with various lights and loud music
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Pregnancy
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Does someone miscarry?
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CharlyS
It is mentioned that someone miscarried
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Are there babies or unborn children?
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membree711
Minor character is pregnant and we see baby after she gives birth briefly.
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Is there childbirth?
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membree711
Off screen, but we see family at hospital and visiting after birth.
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Is there aphobia?
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There's a bet on what sexuality one of the characters is and only one assumes he is asexual, however he does not intend that as an insult but a genuine assumption and the guy assumed by him does not take offense to it. The show is still amatonormative, but it is not aphobic.
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Is someone sexually objectified?
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membree711
A major character is consistently sexually objectified and harassed at her corporate job.
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Are there incestuous relationships?
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Is there sexual content?
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membree711
References, but nothing explicit on screen.
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Social
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cecilie67
Main character is left without a place to sleep because she is assaulted and attempted raped at the sofa she was borrowing.
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