You Are Not My Mother

Movie • 2021  

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A young woman's mother goes missing and then returns with a different personality.
This movie contains 35 potentially triggering events.
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Does the dog die?
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Unanswered Triggers
Were animals harmed in the making?
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Is there pedophilia?
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Is an animal abandoned?
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Is there bestiality?
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Is rape mentioned?
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Is an animal sad?
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Is a woman brutalized for spectacle?
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Are rabbits harmed?
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Abandonment
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mother temporarily leaves child
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Abuse
Is someone stalked?
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Is there domestic violence?
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much of the movie is about the mother having mental health issues, and the plot is focused on her having been replaced with a changeling type version of herself. this is kind of gaslighty in the sense that real life mental health issues sometimes get treated in this way and could be uncomfy
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Is a child abused?
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FlickerFan
The fire incident with the baby is suggested but barely visible; the baby survives and is left with only a small facial burn scar. The intent of the adult was not really to harm or kill the baby either.
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Addiction
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EvilMetalDork
A couple of kids smoke what appears to be weed.
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Is there addiction?
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Does someone abuse alcohol?
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Animal
Does a horse die?
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fraisierdesbois
One is almost run over, but it survives unharmed
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Does an animal die?
(besides a dog, cat or horse)
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Are animals abused?
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there is a brief comment by one of the girls about the bonfire last year getting a cat thrown on it, but it is extremely brief and played as a joke with zero focus
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Is there a dead animal?
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Does a cat die?
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FlickerFan
No cats in the movie but a girl mentions someone throwing a cat into a bonfire.
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Does a pet die?
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Does a dragon die?
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Are there spiders?
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Are there snakes?
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Are there bugs?
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Assault
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PeachyBaby
A woman is tied up by her wrists on a bed in a dream and then later in real life.
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Is someone sexually assaulted?
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Bodily Harm
Is there shaving/cutting?
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Does someone struggle to breathe?
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Is there cannibalism?
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Is someone crushed to death?
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EvilMetalDork
The baby is not burned alive, a character reveals later in the movie that they never intended any harm to the child. The adult changeling, however, doesn't get so lucky.
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Is someone buried alive?
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Is there amputation?
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Does a head get squashed?
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no, but a character does break their ankle
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Is there a hanging?
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one man has a seizure and foams at the mouth, and has to be resuscitated and given a breathing apparatus in the ambulance
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soravanitas
The mom spits out a bloody tooth at one point
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soravanitas
When the mom starts aggressively stomping and jumping around to some music, there is a close up shot of her ankle breaking with a loud cracking sound
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MjHygate
Adult male is seen having a fit on the floor, including rolled eyes, tensed muscles and foaming at the mouth
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Is there genital trauma/mutilation?
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Is there finger/toe mutilation?
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Is someone tortured?
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PeachyBaby
Very psychologically and mentally.
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PeachyBaby
It is heavily implied that the Granny is pushed down the steps. You don't see it, but you hear it faintly.
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PeachyBaby
It is heavily implied that the Granny is pushed down the steps. You don't see it, but you hear it faintly.
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Is there eye mutilation?
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Is there excessive gore?
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Children
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EvilMetalDork
It doesn't occur on screen but there are references to a previous infant abduction
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Does a kid die?
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there are a few sexual comments made between minors
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Disability
Is the r-slur used?
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Drugs/Alcohol
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PeachyBaby
Not on purpose, the man is poisoned by an overdose of lithium. (Spoiler: He ends up alive and fine!)
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Family
Is someone kidnapped?
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Does a parent die?
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Does someone cheat?
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Is a child's toy destroyed?
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Fear
Are there jumpscares?
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there is one moment where a scene changes with a loud noise, but I found the movie incredibly mild in terms of jumpscares
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Lmss
SPOILER: it’s not possession it’s a changing
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Are there ghosts?
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PeachyBaby
There are two ghosts but neither are malicious and are a symbol of good!
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Are there clowns?
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Is there a shower scene?
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Gross
Does someone wet/soil themselves?
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Does someone vomit?
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MollyTurvey
abiut 22 mins in x
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Does someone spit?
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Someone spits up blood and also makes themself vomit
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Is there audio gore?
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IndigoBlue14
Brutal ankle break
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Large-scale Violence
Are there 9/11 depictions?
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Law Enforcement
Is there copaganda?
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Medical
Is electro-therapy used?
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none seen on screen, but one character in hospital is shown to have an IV bag
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MjHygate
No, but mental health treatment and medication run thoughout the film
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Is there a hospital scene?
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Does someone have cancer?
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Mental Health
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PeachyBaby
I'm sure Char has major PTSD and exhibits signs of it throughout the film, but is never explicitly stated.
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skin picking, tearing hair out, purposefully breaking bones
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the main threat is a mentally ill mother being violent to her family and child, two instances involving attempted murder
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Is there misophonia?
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fraisierdesbois
Chewing gum, dripping water, fireworks
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Is there body dysmorphia?
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soravanitas
No, but there is a similar line in the beginning of the movie; the mom is clearly very depressed and she says "I can't do this anymore" and then she goes missing, and it is implied that her daughter is worried that her mom committed suicide (which she did not)
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IndigoBlue14
Char has a panic attack.
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soravanitas
Some bullies trap a girl in a pile of wooden pallets set up for a bonfire
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no, but the mother at one point makes herself vomit in a way that could be triggering to someone with a history of purging
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Is there autism specific abuse?
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no, but there is a significant portion of the start of the movie where a character is suggested to have committed suicide. the character does not die and ends up having just gone missing, but it seemed like a very real possibility for a moment
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Does a baby cry?
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Is there shakey cam?
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Are there flashing lights or images?
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Paranoia
Is the fourth wall broken?
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Pregnancy
Is a baby stillborn?
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Is there childbirth?
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Are there abortions?
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Are there babies or unborn children?
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Does someone miscarry?
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Does a pregnant person die?
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Prejudice
Are there fat jokes?
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Does the black guy die first?
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at one point a homophobic gesture is used to imply one of the girls has been in a sexual relationship with her friend. I found it jarring and uncomfortable, since it kind of came out of nowhere
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Are there "Man in a dress" jokes?
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Is there hate speech?
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Does an LGBT person die?
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EvilMetalDork
Frequent ableist comments about the protagonist and her family
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Are there n-words?
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Relationships
Is there a large age gap?
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Sex
Is there sexual content?
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Is someone sexually objectified?
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Are there nude scenes?
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Are there incestuous relationships?
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Sexism
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Sickness
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no, but someone does have an on-screen seizure
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EvilMetalDork
The mother has an unspecified but apparently lifelong mental illness
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Social
Is someone homeless?
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Spoiler
Is Santa (et al) spoiled?
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Does it have a sad ending?
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Vehicular
Does a car crash?
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Does a car honk or tires screech?
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Does a plane crash?
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Is someone hit by a car?
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Violence
Is there a nuclear explosion?
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Is there blood/gore?
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EvilMetalDork
There is a small amount of blood
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Does someone drown?
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fraisierdesbois
There's a scene where one character drags another under water ("playfully") but does not drown, only gets scared.
One character says that their mother drowned, but no scene is shown.
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Is there gun violence?
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