You Are Not My Mother
Movie • 2021
ReportA young woman's mother goes missing and then returns with a different personality.
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a woman temporarily pulls her child underwater
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Abandonment
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Character disappears toward the beginning of the plot
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Is a child abandoned by a parent?
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mother temporarily leaves child
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much of the movie is about the mother having mental health issues, and the plot is focused on her having been replaced with a changeling type version of herself. this is kind of gaslighty in the sense that real life mental health issues sometimes get treated in this way and could be uncomfy
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FlickerFan
The fire incident with the baby is suggested but barely visible; the baby survives and is left with only a small facial burn scar. The intent of the adult was not really to harm or kill the baby either.
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Is there domestic violence?
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EvilMetalDork
A couple of kids smoke what appears to be weed.
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Does a horse die?
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One is almost run over, but it survives unharmed
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Are animals abused?
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there is a brief comment by one of the girls about the bonfire last year getting a cat thrown on it, but it is extremely brief and played as a joke with zero focus
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Does a cat die?
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FlickerFan
No cats in the movie but a girl mentions someone throwing a cat into a bonfire.
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SPOILER: a man has drugs put in his tea and suffers from a seizure because of it
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Is someone restrained?
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PeachyBaby
A woman is tied up by her wrists on a bed in a dream and then later in real life.
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Is someone beaten up by a bully?
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Not beaten up, but threatened with physical violence and attacked
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Bodily Harm
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Is someone burned alive?
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EvilMetalDork
The baby is not burned alive, a character reveals later in the movie that they never intended any harm to the child. The adult changeling, however, doesn't get so lucky.
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Does someone have a seizure?
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MjHygate
Adult male is seen having a fit on the floor, including rolled eyes, tensed muscles and foaming at the mouth
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Is there Achilles Tendon injury?
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no, but a character does break their ankle
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Are any teeth damaged?
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soravanitas
The mom spits out a bloody tooth at one point
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Does someone asphyxiate?
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one man has a seizure and foams at the mouth, and has to be resuscitated and given a breathing apparatus in the ambulance
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Does someone break a bone?
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soravanitas
When the mom starts aggressively stomping and jumping around to some music, there is a close up shot of her ankle breaking with a loud cracking sound
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Is someone tortured?
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lrrrbch
Tormented and bullied, but not tortured in a stricter sense
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Does someone fall down stairs?
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PeachyBaby
It is heavily implied that the Granny is pushed down the steps. You don't see it, but you hear it faintly.
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Does someone fall to their death?
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PeachyBaby
It is heavily implied that the Granny is pushed down the steps. You don't see it, but you hear it faintly.
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Children
Is an infant abducted?
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It doesn't occur on screen but there are references to a previous infant abduction
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Is a minor sexualized?
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there are a few sexual comments made between minors
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Death
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Disability
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Drugs/Alcohol
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PeachyBaby
Not on purpose, the man is poisoned by an overdose of lithium. (Spoiler: He ends up alive and fine!)
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Fear
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Are there natural bodies of water?
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Just a brief lake scene
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Are there jump scares?
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there is one moment where a scene changes with a loud noise, but I found the movie incredibly mild in terms of jumpscares
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Is someone possessed?
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Lmss
SPOILER: it’s not possession it’s a changing
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Are there ghosts?
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FlickerFan
A ghost appears and appears menacing but turns out to be only warning someone about a danger nearby.
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Gross
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IndigoBlue14
Brutal ankle break
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Does someone vomit?
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abiut 22 mins in x
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Does someone spit?
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Someone spits up blood and also makes themself vomit
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Are needles/syringes used?
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none seen on screen, but one character in hospital is shown to have an IV bag
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Is there a mental institution scene?
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MjHygate
No, but mental health treatment and medication run thoughout the film
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Mental Health
Is a mentally ill person violent?
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EvilMetalDork
The changeling is violent, the mentally ill character is a victim.
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Does someone attempt suicide?
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skin picking, tearing hair out, purposefully breaking bones
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Is there misophonia?
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fraisierdesbois
Chewing gum, dripping water, fireworks
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Does someone suffer from PTSD?
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PeachyBaby
I'm sure Char has major PTSD and exhibits signs of it throughout the film, but is never explicitly stated.
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Does someone have an eating disorder?
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no, but the mother at one point makes herself vomit in a way that could be triggering to someone with a history of purging
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no, but there is a significant portion of the start of the movie where a character is suggested to have committed suicide. the character does not die and ends up having just gone missing, but it seemed like a very real possibility for a moment
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Is there a claustrophobic scene?
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soravanitas
Some bullies trap a girl in a pile of wooden pallets set up for a bonfire
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Are there anxiety attacks?
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IndigoBlue14
Char has a panic attack.
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Does someone say "I'll kill myself"?
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (1-800-273-8255)
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soravanitas
No, but there is a similar line in the beginning of the movie; the mom is clearly very depressed and she says "I can't do this anymore" and then she goes missing, and it is implied that her daughter is worried that her mom committed suicide (which she did not)
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Are there homophobic slurs?
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at one point a homophobic gesture is used to imply one of the girls has been in a sexual relationship with her friend. I found it jarring and uncomfortable, since it kind of came out of nowhere
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Is there ableist language or behavior?
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EvilMetalDork
Frequent ableist comments about the protagonist and her family
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no, but i think it could be interpreted as having similar themes in the sense that the plot revolves around changeling folklore, like stealing children
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Are there incestuous relationships?
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Sexism
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Sickness
Does someone have a chronic illness?
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EvilMetalDork
The mother has an unspecified but apparently lifelong mental illness
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Does someone have a stroke?
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no, but someone does have an on-screen seizure
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Is there blood/gore?
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EvilMetalDork
There is a small amount of blood
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Does someone drown?
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fraisierdesbois
There's a scene where one character drags another under water ("playfully") but does not drown, only gets scared.
One character says that their mother drowned, but no scene is shown.
One character says that their mother drowned, but no scene is shown.
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