YOU and ME and HER: A Love Story
Video Game • 2013 • Horror
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Unanswered Triggers
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Is there pedophilia?
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1PetalRose
Mentioned extremely briefly in the uncensored version only
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Is a minor sexualized?
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1PetalRose
No exact ages are given for any of the characters, but every character is a high school student. There's also quite a lot of explicit sexual content in both text and images featuring these characters. The Steam release of the game removes everything explicit but some sexual undertones are still present.
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Is there bestiality?
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1PetalRose
A very brief mention among a list of other sexual acts only in the uncensored version of the game
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Is an animal abandoned?
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1PetalRose
(Spoilers) There is an abandoned kitten later taken in by the characters. This cat is killed at the tail end of the second route. But is back alive in the third route.
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Is rape mentioned?
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1PetalRose
There is an extremely brief mention of a man being forceful with a girl. However nothing is shown on screen and it's mentioned he's stopped before he does anything.
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Is someone tortured?
73 supporters
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1PetalRose
Depends, the latter half of the game can be considered torturous to the main character. But in a traditional sense, no, all violence is quick and painless except one scene involving bone breaking. Though the pain is not described.
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Abuse
Is someone stalked?
27 supporters
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1PetalRose
Kind of, there is a chase scene. And one character expresses extreme possessive and manipulative behavior. Other than that, no nothing.
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Is there domestic violence?
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Is someone gaslighted?
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1PetalRose
(Vague spoilers) Gaslighting is an extremely vital and important aspect in the final act of the game. Where the protag has his ability to tell fiction and reality apart heavily impaired. As well as a lot of manipulation to make the player hate and distrust another character, questioning what really happened and how they really were.
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1PetalRose
There is an extremely brief mention of pedophilia among a list of other abhorrent sexual acts only in the uncensored version of the game
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Addiction
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1PetalRose
(Vague spoilers) Towards the end of the game drugs are used to manipulate the protagonist and keep him from resisting after being kidnapped. He is not aware of it while it's happening.
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Animal
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phantasmarina
Besides the cat, no.
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Are animals abused?
170 supporters
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1PetalRose
Besides a cat death, there is an extremely brief mention of bestiality among a list of other abhorrent sexual acts only in the uncensored version of the game
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Is there a dead animal?
94 supporters
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1PetalRose
Off screen, not described in detail
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Does a cat die?
144 supporters
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1PetalRose
The death is off screen, but a yowl can be heard in the background when it happens. As a small note the cat is voiced by a human actor so this sound does not sound like a real cat.
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Does a pet die?
133 supporters
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1PetalRose
The main characters adopt a stray kitten in both routes, this cat does get killed off screen at the end of the second route.
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Assault
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1PetalRose
Nothing extreme, but some dubious consent is present in a couple sex scenes, uncensored version only obviously.
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Bodily Harm
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Is someone crushed to death?
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1PetalRose
The protags head is crushed with a metal bat multiple times, though I'm not sure this counts.
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Does a head get squashed?
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phantasmarina
Not squashed, but it does get split open. None of it is visual, all in text. I don’t remember it being too detailed but that could just be me.
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Is there genital trauma/mutilation?
72 supporters
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1PetalRose
Not described in great detail, but it does happen once to the male protag. A crushing sound can be heard
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Does someone break a bone?
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1PetalRose
The protag gets multiple bones broken. Not described in great detail but the bone breaking can be heard.
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Is there excessive gore?
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1PetalRose
There is only one particularly violent scene at the end of the second route. The descriptions are light on detail and only blood is seen on screen. But the sounds are pretty graphic.
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Children
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Disability
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Family
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Is someone kidnapped?
7 supporters
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1PetalRose
(Major Spoilers) The third route of the game features the protagonist being kidnapped and drugged. The main focus of that route is finding a means of escape. How violent your kidnapper will be is entirely dependent on what choice you make.
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Does someone cheat?
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1PetalRose
(Major spoilers) In the second route of the game a large focus is put on finding out if the protag's girlfriend is cheating on him. It turns out she is for reasons entirely out of her control. Overall it is framed as a bad thing but you are meant to sympathize with the character's circumstances, and cannot progress in the game without doing so.
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Fear
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Gross
Does someone vomit?
90 supporters
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1PetalRose
Extremely briefly, no audio, text only.
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Does someone wet/soil themselves?
18 supporters
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1PetalRose
The uncensored version of the game contains multiple sex scenes where a character urinates
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Is there audio gore?
41 supporters
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1PetalRose
Audio gore is pretty common in the later half of the game. Mainly the sound of bones breaking.
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Noxious
Are there flashing lights or images?
45 supporters
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1PetalRose
There are 2 sequences of flashing images and loud static that last a few minutes each. Turning off the sound effects will mute the static sounds but there is no way to avoid the visual static effects.
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Paranoia
Is the fourth wall broken?
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1PetalRose
4th wall breaks are extremely prevalent throughout the entire game. It's incredibly integral to the experience so if that's not for you stay far far away.
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Prejudice
Are there "Man in a dress" jokes?
33 supporters
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1PetalRose
There is a character referred to as a crossdresser and jokes about it are made throughout
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1PetalRose
A character who presents as feminine is later revealed to have been crossdressing. While the character in question never talks about their gender identity, some of the language used and the subplot in general is upsetting. It should be noted in the uncensored version of the game, the character's crossdressing is made fun of for being fetish.
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Sex
Are there nude scenes?
39 supporters
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1PetalRose
The uncensored release of the game contains many images featuring depictions of breasts and both male and female genitalia
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Is someone sexually objectified?
43 supporters
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1PetalRose
Due to Totono largely being about galge as a genre, there are many instances of the heroines being sexualized especially in the uncensored version. One character in particular often reduces herself to a sex object and is later on treated that way by other characters. However this is exclusively framed as a bad thing.
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1PetalRose
There is a side plot involving a character's brother confessing to him. So brief mentions of incest are present throughout. These mentions are exclusively tied to Yuutarou and these scenes are skippable. The relationship doesn't go anywhere and is only used for comedy. The protag is also clearly weirded out by it and expresses it multiple times. (Vauge spoilers) However I should mention that in specific branches of the third route it's heavily implied that Yuutarou actually does get together with his sibling. It's very vauge and entirely missable, but be prepared for that.
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Is there sexual content?
53 supporters
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1PetalRose
The uncensored version of the game features explicit sex scenes and sexual content in general in both images and text. The scenes themselves can be seen as pretty disturbing but no extreme fetish content is featured. It should be noted that this content does have a purpose to the story and it's overall themes and messages. If you'd still like to avoid it the Steam version has all sexual content removed in both text and images, with some sexual undertones still present.
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Spoiler
Does it have a sad ending?
51 supporters
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1PetalRose
Despite everything the endings you can get in this game are generally very happy and satisfying. One ending is a little more bittersweet but that's it.
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Violence
Is there blood/gore?
53 supporters
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1PetalRose
The violence is only expressed through text and audio late into the game. Including some drawn depictions of blood and the sound of bones breaking. I'd say the audio gore is the worst of it.
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