If I Never Met You
Book • 2020 • Romance
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The protagonist vomits from emotional distress towards the beginning of the book.
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Is there sexual content?
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It is mentioned, but not described in depth
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Are there fat jokes?
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Not fat jokes, but fatphobic comments. For example, wondering how one character who happens to be fat and vegan got fat while eating vegan food.
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Does a kid die?
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Jamie’s older brother died when they were both children
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Is there ableist language or behavior?
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A character insults another character by saying that she looks like Prince Harry in drag.
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A character denies that she has an eating disorder, but she describes her behavior as denying herself food in order to stay thin.
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The protagonist's father minimizes how irresponsible he is
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Is someone burned alive?
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There is passing mention of an arsonist, however.
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Is there body dysmorphia?
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The protagonist and her friend both discuss feelings related to body image, though. These don't happen that frequently.
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Is there shaving/cutting?
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The protagonist gets a haircut at a salon. The process of the haircutting isn't really described, just the before and after.
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Does someone cheat?
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The protagonist's long-time boyfriend dumps her for someone else. The protagonist discovers that he had basically promised himself to the other woman while they were still together. The breakup its aftermath can be very intense and painful to read.
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Is there hate speech?
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There are racist microaggressions, though, including the infamous "where are you *really* from?" question. The people who make these microaggressions are not shown in a positive light.
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Jamie’s older brother was hit by a car and killed before the events of the book
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Is there a claustrophobic scene?
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A scene where the protagonist and another character are stuck in an elevator
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Jamie’s father has terminal cancer
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The protagonist's father, though this happens in the background
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