Im Glad My Mom Died
Book • 2022 • Biography
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Is there on-screen pooping?
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The author describes pooping as a child briefly but the faeces itself is not described and it only happens once.
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Very prominent emotional abandonment by parents
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Does an abused person forgive their abuser?
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I think the title lets on as to whether or not Jeannette forgave her mother.
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There are a couple brief mentions of stalking
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The author’s mom was physically abusive to the author’s dad, and emotionally abusive to the author
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Does the abused become the abuser?
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Is someone gaslighted?
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The author experiences gaslighting from her mother, her manager, and various other individuals in her life
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The book is primarily about the author’s experience of emotional abuse at the hands of her mother
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Addiction
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It’s weed.
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Alcohol addiction
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Does someone abuse alcohol?
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The author becomes addicted to alcohol
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Is there a dead animal?
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Dead rats and possums in traps
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in one instance jennette is pressured into sexual acts. in another instance someone starts having sex with her when she is unable to consent. there are also other sexual remarks made toward her by older adults that she recounts through the book.
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The author recounts some uncomfortable sexual experiences in detail, including those where there is no consent, and she is emotionally manipulated into sexual activity
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Bodily Harm
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while not very detailed, there is an instance where jennette talks about shaving her legs.
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Is there throat mutilation?
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georgeishere
Yes as a precaution, the author describes the pain and damage caused to her throat by repetitive vomiting with bulimia. No external trauma to throats happens.
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Does someone struggle to breathe?
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During panic attacks
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Does someone have a seizure?
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The author's mom, towards the end of chapter 47
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Are any teeth damaged?
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Jennette describes losing a tooth from her eating disorder.
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Is someone tortured?
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You could argue that the author’s experience is similar to that of torture
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Is there eye mutilation?
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I am not sure what the other yes votes are referencing, but the only thing I can remember is the author discussing how her eyes look after her purging sessions
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Children
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Is a minor sexualized?
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Happens throughout the author’s childhood
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Death
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Disability
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it is used in the context of quoting other people, and not at all shown in a positive light.
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Family
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Does a parent die?
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amwhite91
As you can probably guess from the title, that's a key theme in this book.
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Does someone cheat?
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The author’s mom had an affair. The author found out that she and her siblings have a different father than the one they grew up with
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Is there a shower scene?
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amwhite91
The author describes being coerced by her mother to shower together, under the supposed idea that her mother is examining her for cancer. The author dissociates each time.
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Gross
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Extremely graphic scene at the end of chapter 56. Mentioned multiple times but this time specifically really triggered me.
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Law Enforcement
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Loss
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Medical
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Is there a mental institution scene?
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Scene? No. But the author’s boyfriend at one point is taken to get mental health attention after he starts exhibiting signs of schizophrenia
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Is there a hospital scene?
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Jennette's mother is in hospital a few times and inevitably does die in the hospital. There's a scene of her mother frantically begging not to go into surgery, and for someone who has been there, it's a hard scene to get through.
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Does someone have cancer?
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Jennette‘s mother has cancer and ultimately dies from it.
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Mental Health
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Eating disorder, depression, shizophrenia, alcohol addiction is mentioned, sometimes in detail.
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Is a mentally ill person violent?
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this is a nonfiction book. the violence is not necessarily a result of mental illness, but the person is undeniably mentally ill.
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Does someone attempt suicide?
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Is reality unstable or unhinged?
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Because of gaslighting and alcoholism
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Does someone say "I'll kill myself"?
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Is there body dysmorphia?
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Throughout
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Is there a claustrophobic scene?
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The airplane bathroom scene could be a bit claustrophobic
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Does someone have an eating disorder?
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Eating disorders are a very prominent subject in the book.
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Does someone die by suicide?
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Prejudice
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jennette talks about how when she was a child, she had to play a character who says "youre so gay" in a mean way and was uncomfortable with it
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Is there ableist language or behavior?
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aside from the R word (used in the context of describing other people's words, not used by jennette herself) there is at least one instance of "narcissist" being used in a demeaning way which may upset those with NPD
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Are there fat jokes?
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Jokes? No, but the author internalized fatphobia due to her mother, the acting industry, and society at large
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Is there hate speech?
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The author calls her things like “slut” and “whore” under the suspicion that the author was having sex
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Relationships
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One of Jennette’s past relationships described in the book is with a much older man.
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Sex
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In sex scenes, discussion of clothes being removed
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Does someone lose their virginity?
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georgeishere
The author "loses her virginity" via being raped.
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Is someone sexually objectified?
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There is a scene where a young prepubescent Jennette is objectified by "the costuming department" in bikini bathing suits though it's made clear it's for Dan Schneider's personal purposes. There is also a scene where Jennette turns 18 and he becomes explicitly sexual towards her in person.
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oreoicecrem
her mom sexually assaults her
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Sexism
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Sickness
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Violence
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Is there blood/gore?
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In the contexts of periods and bulimia
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