A Real Pain
Movie • 2024 • Comedy
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Mismatched cousins David and Benji reunite for a tour through Poland to honor their beloved grandmother. The adventure takes a turn when the pair's old tensions resurface against the backdrop of their family history.
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Benji recalls the time his grandma slapped him in a restaurant when he was 18 but it’s not seen as child abuse or remembered in a negative way
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A character does describe his beloved grandmother hitting him when he was 18 for being late to a restaurant, which he describes as the best thing that ever happened to him because of the lesson it taught him. Dialogue implies that this was the only time she hit him though.
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Not really, but a character does describe his beloved grandmother hitting him when he was 18 for being late to a restaurant, which he describes as the best thing that ever happened to him because of the lesson it taught him. Dialogue implies that this was the only time she hit him though.
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Does the abused become the abuser?
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Benji tells his cousin that his grandmother slapped him around the face when he was 18 and late for a restaurant lunch.
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Not a woman but David slaps his cousin Benji saying it’s to bring him to his senses.
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Benji is slapped at the end of the movie not in a bullying or malicious way.
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Is someone burned alive?
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Benji shaves with an electric razor
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some coughing
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There’s a scene inside a concentration camp, where the horrors of what happened are only implied.
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No one is tortured in this movie but it references the Holocaust and there is a tour of concentration camps
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Does a major character die?
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Their grandma’s death prior to the events of the movie is mentioned throughout.
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surrounded by stories of death
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Not onscreen but it is mentioned that a character overdosed on sleeping pills.
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The main characters’ grandmother is dead before the movie begins but is referenced throughout
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One of the cousins Benji is not physically violent, but his underlying mental health issues mean he is aggressive and sometimes verbally intimidating.
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It is said that a character had attempted months before the events of the film.
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it is mentioned that a character attempted by overdosing on sleeping pills but did not succeed.
it is mentioned that a character attempted by overdosing on sleeping pills but did not succeed.
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One of the main characters gets visibly anxious several times and mentions being on medication for OCD, but I wouldn’t say it’s ever to the extent of an anxiety attack.
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Since Disney + put a photosensitivity warning on this despite other sources saying it was safe,I had a friend watch and tell me what was up. Around 1 hr 5 minutes, Kieran and Jesse's characters go onto a roof to smoke and there is a flickering red light. This lasts 2-3 min. Otherwise, it is safe.
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Benji watches David sleep next to him on the train but not in a weird or creepy way
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A toddler nothing bad happens to him
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It isn't shown on screen but heavily implied two characters sleep together who have a 20 year age difference.
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