Harold And Maude
Movie • 1971 • Comedy
ReportThe young Harold lives in his own world of suicide-attempts and funeral visits to avoid the misery of his current family and home environment. Harold meets an 80-year-old woman named Maude who also lives in her own world yet one in which she is having the time of her life. When the two opposites meet they realize that their differences don’t matter and they become best friends and love each other.
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Abuse
Are there abusive parents?
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Mom isn’t abusive per say, but definitely is emotionally unavailable and unsympathetic towards her son.
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Is there domestic violence?
National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-7233)
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Does the abused become the abuser?
National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-7233)
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Flubbinit
There is a scene where two characters smoke hookah together.
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Bodily Harm
Is there shaving/cutting?
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There is a gory shot beginning at the 6 minute 50 second mark with lots of fake blood spattered around the room where the character pretended that he cut himself to death, it shows visible bloody wounds on his body. Bloody imagery and the scene ends at 7 minute 20 second mark.
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Is someone crushed to death?
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Flubbinit
a car falls over a cliff to give the illusion that its driver has been crushed to death at the bottom but it is a fake-out
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Is someone burned alive?
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harold fools a woman into thinking he has set himself on fire (explicit)
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Is there amputation?
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There is a scene in which he pretends to chop off his own (fake) hand with a cleaver
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Is there a hanging?
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A fake hanging opens the film. It could be upsetting if you came to the movie unaware of its sardonic nature.
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Does someone asphyxiate?
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Fake hanging and fake drowning
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Is there finger/toe mutilation?
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No fingers or toes but a character pretends to chop off his hand with a cleaver
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Does someone fall to their death?
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it seems to happen, but it's a fake out
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Is there excessive gore?
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Sid
Lots of fake blood
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Drugs/Alcohol
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Sid
Maude kills herself by this method at the end
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Does a parent die?
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Sid
We don’t know what happened to Harold’s father but he is referred to in past tense
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Are there clowns?
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metalsonic
The only clown in this movie is Harold's mom
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Anonymous
No razors on screen but during one of Harold’s “performances” it’s obvious that it’s meant to look like he slit his wrists
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Gross
Does someone vomit?
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Brief mention, not graphic at all!
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Law Enforcement
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There are 2 instances of the characters interacting with cops (low stakes) but they totally clown on the cops' self aggrandizing idea of their authority so it's pretty anti-cop :)
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Loss
Is a priceless artifact destroyed?
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Anonymous
Yes but with very good reason :)
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Sid
At the end
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Mental Health
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Flubbinit
There is a gory shot beginning at the 6 minute 50 second mark with lots of fake blood spattered around the room where the character pretended that he cut himself to death, it shows visible bloody wounds on his body. Bloody imagery and the scene ends at 7 minute 20 second mark. There are many other scenes where he pretends to hurt/kill himself by means of hanging, drowning in a pool, shooting himself, setting himself on fire, chopping off his hand with a cleaver, and stabbing himself in a harakiri ritual.
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Is a mentally ill person violent?
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there's a scene where Harold pretends to be mentally unstable and sadistic to dodge the draft, and he and Maude have staged a scene where he acts more and more unhinged until he eventually lashes out at Maude, chasing, yelling, swinging at and eventually pushing her to fall into the ocean
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The whole movie is about a kid who sets up pretend suicide scenes to freak out his mom, but someone does attempt for real in the film.
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Does someone say "I'll kill myself"?
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (1-800-273-8255)
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Flubbinit
No but there are scenes where he talks about why he pretends to kill himself. There is a scene where a character reveals that they have intentionally overdosed but is very calm and at peace with it.
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there's a real suicide at the end, and numerous fake outs for the main character's mother's benefit, but as he says, 'I wouldn't call it for her benefit'. Its so brilliant. There is faked suicides of every kind. I love this movie
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Does someone suffer from PTSD?
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metalsonic
Maude is revealed to have been in the concentration camps during the Holocaust. It is likely that she suffered/suffers with it, and her outlook on life is how she copes with it.
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Is there obscene language/gestures?
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Sid
Harold pretends to perform cunnilingus on a big wooden vagina statue
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Are there flashing lights or images?
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At 8:28-40 he is going through a carwash that has lights that blink on and off between red and blue. At 21:05-34 cars with headlights at dusk on are driving down a path and there is a lens filter that makes them flare out, and they flash as obstacles pass in front of the headlights. At 1:16:05-41 they are at a carnival and there are many spinning and flashing lights as they exit the carnival ride. At 1:18:55-1:19:14 there is a shot of fireworks going off. At 1:25:54-1:26:01 red ambulance lights flash.
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Paranoia
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Is the fourth wall broken?
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Sid
The characters occasionally look into the camera
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Are there fat jokes?
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thatnerdtori
His mother mentions that the "computer dating service" filters out fat people.
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Is there hate speech?
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vlixxord
Victor tells Harold there will be plenty "slant-eyed girls" in the war.
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Relationships
Is there a large age gap?
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Sid
Harold is 19 and Maude is 79
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Sex
Are there nude scenes?
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Flubbinit
nothing fully nude is shown, but one character models in the nude and you see her peeking around the sculpture. Two characters lie shirtless in bed together (nothing explicit shown)
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Is someone sexually objectified?
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Sid
The vicar talks about Maude’s “withered flesh, sagging breasts and flabby buttocks”
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Are there incestuous relationships?
National Sexual Assault Hotline 800.656.4673
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Is there sexual content?
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Flubbinit
No graphic sexual scenes happen, however there is a scene which shows two characters shirtless in bed together in the morning, implying that they were intimate the night before. One of the characters models in the nude (nothing graphic shown). There are some suggestive jokes, including one visual joke involving a very large wooden carving that looks like a certain anatomical part
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Does it have a sad ending?
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Flubbinit
The ending makes me cry everytime (and I've seen it 20+ times), but there is a feeling of catharsis, satisfaction and happiness that each character is better off and got what they wanted and needed. Bittersweet ending.
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Vehicular
Does a car honk or tires screech?
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Flubbinit
Maude is a very bad driver so any time she is behind the wheel, expect there to be squealing tires and other drivers honking at her
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Does a car crash?
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Flubbinit
A car is driven off of a cliff, crashing to the beach below.
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Violence
Does someone drown?
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Quiet_Wyatt
Fake out drowning played for laughs, no tension.
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Is there blood/gore?
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Flubbinit
There is a gory shot beginning at the 6 minute 50 second mark with lots of fake blood spattered around the room where the character pretended that he cut himself to death, it shows visible bloody wounds on his body. Bloody imagery and the scene ends at 7 minute 20 second mark. There are many other scenes where he pretends to hurt/kill himself by means of hanging, drowning in a pool, shooting himself, setting himself on fire, chopping off his hand with a cleaver, and stabbing himself in a harakiri ritual.
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Is there gun violence?
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Flubbinit
At 19:22-20:53 the character loads a gun, aims it at his mother, then points it at himself and it realistically fires, and he falls back pretending he has been shot.
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