Her

Movie • 2013 • Drama  

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In the not so distant future, Theodore, a lonely writer purchases a newly developed operating system designed to meet the user's every needs. To Theodore's surprise, a romantic relationship develops between him and his operating system. This unconventional love story blends science fiction and romance in a sweet tale that explores the nature of love and the ways that technology isolates and connects us all.
This movie contains 13 potentially triggering events.
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Does the dog die?
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Is an animal abandoned?
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Is a woman brutalized for spectacle?
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Is an animal sad?
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Are rabbits harmed?
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Are there abusive parents?
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Are there transphobic slurs?
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Is there deadnaming or birthnaming?
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Abandonment
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Abuse
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Is there domestic violence?
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Plumberton
A character in a romantic relationship with tan other character keeps a significant secret for a prolonged period of time as they struggle to work out how to tell them.
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Is a child abused?
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Addiction
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Is there addiction?
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Does someone abuse alcohol?
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Animal
Were animals harmed in the making?
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Does a horse die?
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Does an animal die?
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Are animals abused?
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Is there a dead animal?
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Does a cat die?
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isabel4
There is MENTION of a dead cat. It's pretty horrific as one character wants the other to strangle her with a dead cat during sex. Nothing is shown but it very clearly references the dead cat and its tail, etc.
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Does a pet die?
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Does a dragon die?
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Are there spiders?
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Are there snakes?
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Are there bugs?
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Assault
Is someone drugged?
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Is there pedophilia?
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Is rape mentioned?
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Is someone restrained?
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gracefade
No, but there is a scene where a character seems uncomfortable / unsure if they want to consent with a person trying to initiate sex with them
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Bodily Harm
Is there shaving/cutting?
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Does someone struggle to breathe?
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Is there cannibalism?
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Is someone crushed to death?
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Is someone burned alive?
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Is someone buried alive?
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Is there body horror?
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Is there amputation?
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Does a head get squashed?
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Is there Achilles Tendon injury?
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Is there a hanging?
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Does someone asphyxiate?
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Are any teeth damaged?
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Does someone break a bone?
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Does someone have a seizure?
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Is there genital trauma/mutilation?
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Is there finger/toe mutilation?
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Is someone tortured?
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Does someone fall down stairs?
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Does someone fall to their death?
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Is there eye mutilation?
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Is there excessive gore?
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Children
Is an infant abducted?
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Does a kid die?
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Is a minor sexualized?
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Death
Does someone sacrifice themselves?
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Does a major character die?
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sadpururin
Some sentient operating systems "disappear", meaning they are gone from the humans' existence but they can't die
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Disability
Is the r-slur used?
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Drugs/Alcohol
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Family
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Does a parent die?
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Does someone cheat?
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Emotionally.
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Is a child's toy destroyed?
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Fear
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Is someone possessed?
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Are there ghosts?
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Are there clowns?
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isabel4
It's a brief shot of the character's face as he showers. No nudity.
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Are there mannequins?
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Gross
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Does someone vomit?
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Does someone spit?
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Is there audio gore?
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Large-scale Violence
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Law Enforcement
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LGBTQ+
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sadpururin
KIND OF, gender is very ambiguous in this film due to the AI elements, but it won't trigger in the same manner as a normal bi cheating scene.
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Medical
Is electro-therapy used?
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Are needles/syringes used?
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Is there a mental institution scene?
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Is there a hospital scene?
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Does someone have cancer?
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Mental Health
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Does someone self harm?
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Is a mentally ill person violent?
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eastcraven
it's a very quiet movie so lots of audible lip smacking, breathing, and whispering
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Is there body dysphoria?
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Is there body dysmorphia?
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There are a few moments of extreme panic on behalf of the main character. Not sure if they could be characterized as anxiety attacks but the character definitely suffers acute emotional distress.
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Does someone have an eating disorder?
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Is there autism specific abuse?
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Noxious
Does a baby cry?
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Is there shakey cam?
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Is there obscene language/gestures?
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Are there flashing lights or images?
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Paranoia
Is the fourth wall broken?
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Pregnancy
Is a baby stillborn?
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Is there childbirth?
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Are there abortions?
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Are there babies or unborn children?
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Does someone miscarry?
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Does a pregnant person die?
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Prejudice
Are there fat jokes?
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isabel4
A character remarks that another character is fat (in a disparaging way). Very brief but played for laughs.
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Does the black guy die first?
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Are there homophobic slurs?
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Are there "Man in a dress" jokes?
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Is there hate speech?
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Does an LGBT person die?
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Are there n-words?
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Relationships
Is there a large age gap?
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Sex
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truegryphon
Yes. Nudity, sexual contact, and masturbation.
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Moni1029
the computer girlfriend uses a girl (consensually) to be used as a vessel to have sex with theodore.
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Are there nude scenes?
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Is there bestiality?
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Moni1029
sex chat girl does fantasize about being choked by a dead cat but nothing is shown?
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Are there incestuous relationships?
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Sexism
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male main character is demasculated by multiple characters
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Sickness
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Does someone have a chronic illness?
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Is there dementia/Alzheimer's?
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Social
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Are there fat suits?
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Spoiler
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truegryphon
It's a happy ending with sad sentimental undertones.
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Vehicular
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Does a plane crash?
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Is someone hit by a car?
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Violence
Is there a nuclear explosion?
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Is there blood/gore?
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Does someone drown?
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Is there gun violence?
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