Her
Movie • 2013 • Drama
ReportIn the not so distant future, Theodore, a lonely writer purchases a newly developed operating system designed to meet the user's every needs. To Theodore's surprise, a romantic relationship develops between him and his operating system. This unconventional love story blends science fiction and romance in a sweet tale that explores the nature of love and the ways that technology isolates and connects us all.
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A character in a romantic relationship with tan other character keeps a significant secret for a prolonged period of time as they struggle to work out how to tell them.
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A character describes wanting to be choked with a dead cat in a sexual way via a cyber sex audio call. No dead animal shown.
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There is MENTION of a dead cat. It's pretty horrific as one character wants the other to strangle her with a dead cat during sex. Nothing is shown but it very clearly references the dead cat and its tail, etc.
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mention of a "fantasy" during a sex call. the woman asks the main character to say he's choking her with a dead cat, he finds it really weird but "helps" her by describing it
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Does a non-human character die?
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Some sentient operating systems "disappear", meaning they are gone from the humans' existence but they can't die
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It's a brief shot of the character's face as he showers. No nudity.
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KIND OF, gender is very ambiguous in this film due to the AI elements, but it won't trigger in the same manner as a normal bi cheating scene.
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it's a very quiet movie so lots of audible lip smacking, breathing, and whispering
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There are a few moments of extreme panic on behalf of the main character. Not sure if they could be characterized as anxiety attacks but the character definitely suffers acute emotional distress.
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A character remarks that another character is fat (in a disparaging way). Very brief but played for laughs.
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sex chat girl does fantasize about being choked by a dead cat but nothing is shown?
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the computer girlfriend uses a girl (consensually) to be used as a vessel to have sex with theodore.
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Yes. Nudity, sexual contact, and masturbation.
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male main character is demasculated by multiple characters
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Does it have a sad ending?
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It's a happy ending with sad sentimental undertones.
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