XOXY, a Memoir
Book • 2020 • Biography
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The author discusses how doctors lied about the surgery she received as a teen, then telling her it was a hysterectomy, but really, it was a gonadectomy to remove internal testes. Throughout the book, the author explains how common it is for infants with ambiguous genitalia to be given unnecessary genital surgeries
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Discussion of becoming sexually active. Sexual encounters are not described
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The author discusses people talking about intersex conditions as “birth defects”
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The author is diagnosed with PTSD
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The author discusses the uphill battle of trying to get accurate representation and information about intersex people to circulate in the media
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Does someone cheat?
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The author’s father cheated on her mother
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The author briefly mentions taking a friend to get an abortion
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The author discusses how she developed a dissociative disorder, and she tends to dissociate most while experiencing extreme positive or negative emotions
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The woman the author’s father has an affair with suffered the loss of her husband to cancer. The author was told she was getting a hysterectomy to avoid cancer in the future (it was really a gonadectomy), and feared cancer for years after that
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The woman the author’s father has an affair with suffered the loss of her husband to cancer. The author was told she was getting a hysterectomy to avoid cancer in the future (it was really a gonadectomy), and feared cancer for years after that
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Is there a hospital scene?
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The surgeries that the author experienced without informed consent are central to the book. There are other hospital scenes where the author is visiting someone else
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Cocaine use is discussed
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The author discusses how she never got her period and felt self-conscious because all her friends had gotten theirs
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The author’s mother had multiple sclerosis
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