Dead to Me
TV Show • 2019 • Drama
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A hotheaded widow searching for the hit-and-run driver who mowed down her husband befriends an eccentric optimist who isn't quite what she seems.
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Your Triggers
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Needs More Answers
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Abuse
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Judy talks about how her mother was very neglectful, and about how she used to use Judy to pretend to have seizures so she could steal drugs from the hospital.
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There's no physical abuse, but one of the characters is in an emotionally abusive relationship throughout the first season.
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Is someone gaslighted?
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Judy by Steve
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Is someone stalked?
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if there was a maybe button i'd use it, because one of the characters mildly stalks another, but with good intentions
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Addiction
Is there addiction?
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Addiction to prescription pills comes up several times.
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Does someone abuse alcohol?
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One character gets extremely drunk several times in S3. He has go to AA and rehab.
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One character smokes weed, several others abuse prescription pills, there is drinking and the main character smokes tobacco.
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Animal
Are animals abused?
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The weird kid kills Harry's dadbird
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Does a pet die?
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Kind of a pet.. it’s a wild bird but it visits with a kid regularly and he loves it
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In Season 2 Episode 4, a bird dies and it's dead body is shown on screen.
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Is there a dead animal?
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yes,
SPOILER: a dead bird is shown, and a few dead rats are shown. one of which has a little gore
SPOILER: a dead bird is shown, and a few dead rats are shown. one of which has a little gore
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Assault
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A man attempts to sexually assault a woman in his car; she manages to fight him off and escapes, but is shaken by the experience.
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Bodily Harm
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Is there finger/toe mutilation?
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Verbal one-time joke about finger mutilation.
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Does a head get squashed?
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No, but there is later on a graphic description of a body with a head injury.
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Are any teeth damaged?
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Mention of a chipped tooth
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Is someone crushed to death?
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A piece of ceiling suddenly collapses while there are characters nearby, but no one gets hurt
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Does someone break a bone?
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Discussion about possible bone breaking
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Does someone have a seizure?
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no but there is mentions
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Is there genital trauma/mutilation?
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Jen has "placenta previa", which makes her lose a small amount of blood, which stains her pants. The scene might be triggering because Jen and Judy expect the worse since they don't know what's happening, but she immediately sees a doctor and turns out fine, as well as the baby.
You can skip from around 17:30 to 17:50 if this is a sensitive matter for you.
You can skip from around 17:30 to 17:50 if this is a sensitive matter for you.
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Children
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Does a kid die?
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SPOILER: 5 miscarriages are discussed
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Death
Does someone sacrifice themselves?
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No one is killed but (MAJOR SPOILERS) a character confesses to a murder to cover up for someone else.
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Disability
Is the r-slur used?
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not in a derogatory way or used against anyone but it is said at the near end of S1E2
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Drugs/Alcohol
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Family
Is a child's toy destroyed?
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A child's toy is used as a murder weapon and is broken in the process.
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Does a parent die?
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Mention of Jen's dead mother
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Does someone cheat?
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Spoiler: main characters dead husband is found to have had a long term affair with a young woman, and their neighbours’ husband is found to be having an affair with another man
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Fear
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Are there clowns?
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No but in S3E4 there are a ton of creepy old dolls. (There’s no dolls section yet and I figure there might be sone trigger overlap…)
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Is there a shower scene?
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implied but not shown
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Are there jump scares?
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It isn't intended as a jumpscare, but a scene with a sudden car crash is played as a brief flashback at many points during the show.
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Gross
Does someone vomit?
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Adding more context to the above comment on season 3: “episode 1 around minute 16:00 ben vomits in the hospital audio only.” I didn’t watch the scene but wife reports it is definitely audio AND visual (just toward the side, not the whole frame). FYI!
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Is there audio gore?
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In the beginning of episode one, when theyre sitting in a circle talking about their losses
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Does someone wet/soil themselves?
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A pregnant woman has some spotting through he pants in S3.
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Large-scale Violence
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Law Enforcement
Is there copaganda?
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not a lot, but towards the end of season 2 a cop is shown as a hero for covering up a crime
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Is there incarceration?
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Judy is arrested but is bailed out quickly, and Judy’s mother is in prison and she visits her a few times.
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LGBTQ+
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Medical
Does someone have cancer?
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A character has a double mastectomy as a preventative measure after discovering she has a cancer-causing gene. Her husband is cruel to her about her post-surgery body, and initiates an affair with another woman. He facilitates this affair with the lie that he is a widower, claiming his wife died of breast cancer.
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Are needles/syringes used?
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Season 3 episode 8
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Is there a hospital scene?
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One of the characters goes another character who is visiting a family member and walks through the maternity ward
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Mental Health
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There is a suicide attempt, but the character survives.
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Judy walks out in front of a car on the road, attempting to get hit. It doesn’t happen and the car screeches to a stop.
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Season 2, yes. Main character punches herself several times.
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Does someone have an eating disorder?
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referenced briefly
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Is a mentally ill person violent?
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Spoiler: The main female character has a lot of repressed trauma and is constantly angry and aggressive, and it manifests at one point to killing someone’s
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Is there body dysmorphia?
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Jen starts to hate her body due to the comments her husband would make and the fact that he was having an affair. He did so after she got a double mastectomy
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Is there a claustrophobic scene?
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There is a moment where a character mentions feeling claustrophobic and has trouble opening a door to get out of a car, but it's brief, and the car is open top.
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Does someone have a meltdown?
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There are quite a few throughout the show with both Judy and Jen. Judy has very upsetting meltdowns quite often.
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Does someone say "I'll kill myself"?
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (1-800-273-8255)
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Someone says “I’d rather kill myself than ________.”
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Noxious
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Are there flashing lights or images?
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There is one scene in a club with some small light flashes.
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Paranoia
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Pregnancy
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Does someone miscarry?
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A main character discusses their grief over repeated miscarriages, and a scene is shown in a hospital where the character is wearing a bloodstained dress while a nurse consoles them.
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Is there childbirth?
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Happens off-screen.
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Are there babies or unborn children?
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In S3 there is a newborn.
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Are there abortions?
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technically no, but one characters has a miscarriage
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Prejudice
Are there fat jokes?
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(S3 SPOILERS) A character is secretly pregnant in S3 and people make subtle comments about her weight gain. Nothing mean spirited, really, but still.
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A lot of jokes about non-binarity, which are not derogatory but feel a bit weird and off coming from two cis women
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Is there ableist language or behavior?
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"Crazy " is used to describe people a lot.
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Does an LGBT person die?
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(MAJOR SPOILERS) An LGBT person has terminal cancer.
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Is there hate speech?
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derogatory comments towards women, offensive slurs
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Relationships
Is there a large age gap?
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Kind of.. the main female character’s dear husband is found to have been having a long term affair with an extremely young woman
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Religious
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Sex
Are there incestuous relationships?
National Sexual Assault Hotline 800.656.4673
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Is there sexual content?
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From memory, nothing explicit
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Sexism
Is a male character ridiculed for crying?
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I’m going to say technically no. However, in S1E5 a male character cries (somewhat over-dramatically) and although the actual characters are supportive, it feels like the audience is supposed to find it ridiculous. Like the joke is that he’s too sensitive.
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Sickness
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Does someone have a stroke?
21 supporters
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Mentioned that a minor character, and elderly woman, has had two strokes. It is not shown.
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Social
Is someone homeless?
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Technically yes at the start, and mentions of sleeping in a car are made
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Spoiler
Does it have a sad ending?
90 supporters
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A large part of it is sad. The other part is not.
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Vehicular
Does a car honk or tires screech?
16 supporters
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Multiple times throughout the entire show.
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Does a car crash?
1 supporters
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A car crashes into a human being, killing them. Imagery of the damaged car and the shattered windshield is featured prominently.
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Is someone hit by a car?
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This is a central plot point of the series, and in the first few episodes the show repeatedly cuts to a driver’s-perspective clip of a man being struck by the car.
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Violence
Is there blood/gore?
80 supporters
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There are some blurry/zoomed out images of a man’s mangled body after a car accident.
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Does someone drown?
45 supporters
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Maybe? [Spoilers] One of the characters is hit in the head and falls into the pool. It's hard to say if it was the hit or ultimately the water.
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Is there gun violence?
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Multiple people are threatened with guns, and there is a fatal shooting.
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