The Haunting of Bly Manor

TV Show • 2020 • Horror  

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After an au pair’s tragic death, Henry hires a young American nanny to care for his orphaned niece and nephew who reside at Bly Manor with the chef Owen, groundskeeper Jamie and housekeeper, Mrs. Grose.
This tv show contains 81 potentially triggering events.
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Season
Episode
Your Triggers
Does the dog die?
162 supporters
Yes
1
No
93
7
Kris
There are no dogs.
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Unanswered Triggers
0
valhdia
S1
 E1
Mrs. Grose dissociates when Dani first comes in to meet her
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Abandonment
0
Anonymous
S1
 E9
At the end of the series, someone leaves suddenly without saying goodbye in order to protect a loved one.
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Is a child abandoned by a parent?
0 supporters
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Yes
12
No
2
Is an animal abandoned?
0 supporters
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Yes
0
No
7
Abuse
Are there abusive parents?
22 supporters
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Yes
8
No
1
Yes
6
No
3
Is someone stalked?
11 supporters
Yes
54
No
7
6
qwerty.123
They are stalked by ghosts, usually hidden in frame or shown far behind them. A ghost continually walks by windows and leers in, scaring the other characters.
3 comments | Add comment
8
colinsr
Peter becomes verbally aggressive/abusive towards Rebecca after the kitchen cake tasting scene
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Is a woman brutalized for spectacle?
34 supporters
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Yes
0
No
5
3
cherry
a man who abuses his girlfriend was abused as a child
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Yes
58
No
6
4
Irrellephant
One character does quite a bit of this.
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Is someone abused with a belt?
5 supporters
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Yes
0
No
3
Is a child abused?
56 supporters
Yes
67
No
2
12
qwerty.123
A character implies that his father sexually abused him and other young children in a conversation with his mother, who is complicit. The scene is a few minutes long. It is in episode 7 around the 40 minute mark when peter flashes back to his mom knocking at the door.
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Addiction
8
Kris
There is a lot of cigarette smoking, including a child shown smoking.
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Is there addiction?
7 supporters
Yes
62
No
2
10
Setton
There is a character who develops alcoholism as a coping mechanism after the death of a loved one.
1 comment | Add comment
Yes
76
No
0
14
Adamm
The man Dani interviews with in episode 1 is shown to drink heavily

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Animal
Were animals harmed in the making?
54 supporters
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Yes
0
No
11
Does a horse die?
46 supporters
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Yes
0
No
71
Does an animal die?
(besides a dog, cat or horse)
84 supporters
Yes
103
No
4
15
LaurenScott
Episode 2: A pet pigeon is killed off screen. Its body is seen in full view, and in the following scene it's death is explicitly described by a character.
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Are animals abused?
97 supporters
Yes
80
No
5
12
Chris112
A bird is killed offscreen in e2; the dead bird is shown but nothing else is heard or seen. In e5 woman tells a tory of a hurt mouse dying badly but it is not shown. There are no other animals in this series
4 comments | Add comment
Yes
0
No
72
Yes
117
No
3
12
Sainted
Episode 2. Dead dove. Implied to have been killed by the child. You do not see the kill
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Is an animal sad?
1 supporters
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Yes
0
No
6
Are rabbits harmed?
33 supporters
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Yes
0
No
8
Does a cat die?
88 supporters
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Yes
0
No
71
Does a pet die?
74 supporters
Yes
18
No
1
2
saste12
A pet bird is killed. Not shown on-screen, but the whole situation may make some uncomfortable. It happens while Miles is at boarding school.
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Does a dragon die?
11 supporters
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Yes
0
No
67
Are there spiders?
26 supporters
Yes
92
No
0
10
Anonymous
In episode 1, while Dani is walking outside with Miles and Flora, Miles finds something in the bushes and calls for them to come look. He then brings over a palm-sized spider which scares off Flora, but Dani is not afraid and gently takes the harmless spider into her own hands.
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Are there alligators/crocodiles??
2 supporters
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Yes
0
No
8
Are there snakes?
10 supporters
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Yes
0
No
65
Are there sharks?
5 supporters
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Yes
0
No
9
Are there bugs?
16 supporters
Yes
75
No
4
5
tiredvampire
Leeches, to be exact.
4 comments | Add comment
Assault
0
perfetc42
By another woman
1 comment | Add comment
Is someone drugged?
11 supporters
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Yes
0
No
9
Is there pedophilia?
54 supporters
Yes
10
No
3
0
Spark
It’s implied by a character that it happened to him. No visuals, no details.
1 comment | Add comment
Yes
14
No
0
1
One of the main characters is drowned by her boyfriend.
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Is rape mentioned?
37 supporters
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Yes
8
No
1
Is someone beaten up by a bully?
10 supporters
Add comment
Yes
8
No
2
Yes
19
No
1
1
saste12
A character is locked in a room in Episode 1. A character is also tied up in Episode 7.
1 comment | Add comment
Yes
62
No
5
17
qwerty.123
Nothing happens on screen. A character implies that his father sexually abused him and other young children in a conversation with his mother, who is complicit. The scene is a few minutes long. It is in episode 7 around the 40 minute mark when peter flashes back to his mom knocking at the door.
2 comments | Add comment
Is someone's mouth covered?
7 supporters
Add comment
Yes
2
No
1
Yes
0
No
10
Bodily Harm
Yes
47
No
13
6
Misanthrope
SPOILER ****

They cut the ladies upper arm to blood shed an illness which doesn't work.
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Are any hands damaged?
10 supporters
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Yes
0
No
3
Are there dislocations?
3 supporters
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Yes
0
No
3
Is there throat mutilation?
9 supporters
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Yes
0
No
3
5
Anonymous
In episode 2 Miles attempts to choke out a roommate at boarding school as well as Dani while playing hide and seek. No one is seriously injured but they both struggle to breathe.
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Is there decapitation?
12 supporters
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Yes
0
No
9
Is there cannibalism?
21 supporters
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Yes
1
No
58
Is someone crushed to death?
13 supporters
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Yes
0
No
18
Is someone choked?
10 supporters
Yes
10
No
1
0
HawkBloc
Whenever the Lady of the Lake takes someone, she grabs them by the neck, choking them.
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Is someone burned alive?
20 supporters
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Yes
0
No
59
Is someone buried alive?
12 supporters
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Yes
0
No
53
Is there body horror?
25 supporters
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Yes
1
No
12
Is there amputation?
10 supporters
Yes
6
No
54
7
There’s discussion in episode 5 (I think) about a mouse chewing off its own arm to escape a glue trap
1 comment | Add comment
Yes
1
No
60
0
valhdia
S1
 E1
no, but it is mentioned among the ghost stories at the very beginning
2 comments | Add comment
Is there Achilles Tendon injury?
10 supporters
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Yes
0
No
19
Is there a hanging?
18 supporters
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Yes
0
No
53
Yes
19
No
1
3
saste12
Yes - many characters are nearly killed or just flat-out killed this way. Characters are choked, drowned, and smothered throughout the series.
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Are any teeth damaged?
24 supporters
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Yes
0
No
60
Does someone become unconscious?
4 supporters
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Yes
14
No
0
Yes
75
No
2
7
Anonymous
Miles jumps out of a tree while at boarding school and is later seen with an arm cast. The break is not shown.
5 comments | Add comment
Yes
0
No
57
5
qwerty.123
People come in and out of consciousness without awareness of what they were doing while they were unconscious, but there are no actual seizures.
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Is there genital trauma/mutilation?
37 supporters
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Yes
0
No
26
Yes
0
No
58
5
charlotteanne_l
No finger or toe mutilation, however there are two scenes where there are close up shots of a bloody hand.
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Is someone tortured?
51 supporters
Yes
1
No
58
2
phantomsearcher29
No but there are a couple scenes that could be considered torture if you squint. For instance a character is forced to watch as potentially bad things happen to others characters. So it depends on your point of view.
1 comment | Add comment
Yes
14
No
2
1
Unconscious/dead persons dragged down stairs
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5
Chris112
A woman is pushed into a well
3 comments | Add comment
Yes
0
No
59
14
qwerty.123
No, but ghosts have smoothed over eyes that are just skin.
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Is someone stabbed?
5 supporters
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Yes
0
No
3
Yes
0
No
19
1
saste12
A character is struck by a vehicle and is shown to be bleeding out on the ground in Episode 4. That's the goriest part of the series I think. Another character falls from a great height in Episode 5, and their body is shown in the aftermath, but only a little blood and no bones/guts. Some partially decomposed bodies are shown in brief glimpses. Not a gory series besides those examples.
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Children
Yes
15
No
3
0
saste12
A child is abducted in Episode 8, and another child is almost abducted in Episode 9. Both are by a ghost though, so not a realistic portrayal of child abduction.
1 comment | Add comment
Does a kid die?
25 supporters
Yes
63
No
7
7
Kris
Episode 8, a young boy is discovered by a ghost and taken into a lake and drowned.
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Is a minor sexualized?
52 supporters
Add comment
Yes
1
No
18
Creepy Crawly
Are there bedbugs?
8 supporters
Add comment
Yes
0
No
4
Death
2
saste12
A couple characters put themselves in harm's way to save others. Technically only one of them dies from their sacrifice.
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Does a major character die?
10 supporters
Add comment
Yes
9
No
1
Does a non-human character die?
14 supporters
Add comment
Yes
1
No
9
Does someone die?
10 supporters
Add comment
Yes
12
No
1
Disability
Is the r-slur used?
20 supporters
Add comment
Yes
0
No
19
Yes
0
No
3
Drugs/Alcohol
Does someone overdose?
9 supporters
Add comment
Yes
0
No
18
Family
Yes
60
No
8
4
qwerty.123
A character is restrained against her will and hidden away in the attic.
3 comments | Add comment
Does a parent die?
8 supporters
Yes
90
No
0
9
Adamm
A significant part of the premise is that the kids' parents are dead
3 comments | Add comment
Does someone cheat?
13 supporters
Yes
68
No
1
6
qwerty.123
Marriage infidelity depicted and discussed.
4 comments | Add comment
Yes
1
No
43
5
AllyCally
There are dolls in disrepair but no toys are broken deliberately.
2 comments | Add comment
Does a family member die?
10 supporters
Add comment
Yes
13
No
1
Fear
Are there jumpscares?
27 supporters
Yes
76
No
1
5
highpalpss
For specific timestamps per episode look up ‘the haunting of bly manor’ guide to every single jump scare. It’s a great article by hypable.com
8 comments | Add comment
Yes
84
No
0
6
Kris
Two children and an adult woman are possessed by ghosts at various intervals throughout the show.
2 comments | Add comment
Are there ghosts?
6 supporters
Yes
96
No
0
9
Anonymous
As in the previous season, there are tons of ghosts in this show all over the place.
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Are there clowns?
8 supporters
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Yes
0
No
65
0
xfee
pond is seen and used in storyline throughout

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Is trypophobic content shown?
12 supporters
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Yes
0
No
7
Are there razors?
S.A.F.E. ALTERNATIVES® (1-800-DONTCUT)
3 supporters
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Yes
0
No
8
Yes
16
No
38
5
Snezzpai
Character is seen in the bath.
1 comment | Add comment
Yes
11
No
3
2
thelocalmaniac
There aren’t mannequins exactly, but their are dolls and talisman shaped like dolls throughout the season.
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Gross
Does someone wet/soil themselves?
11 supporters
Add comment
Yes
0
No
26
Does someone vomit?
52 supporters
Yes
84
No
1
11
Irrellephant
Ep. 8, after Viola appears and says, "I don't want tea, I want to talk to my daughter" and again when Viola walks into the manor and it's filled with plagued peasants around 48 minutes in
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Is someone eaten?
16 supporters
Add comment
Yes
0
No
8
Is there on-screen pooping?
17 supporters
Add comment
Yes
0
No
8
Does someone spit?
6 supporters
Add comment
Yes
0
No
52
Is there audio gore?
27 supporters
Yes
9
No
31
1
saste12
Characters make choking sounds when they're being, well, choked to death. Another character's body falls from a large height, killing them. The impact isn't shown on-screen, but the sound is heard.
1 comment | Add comment
Is there farting?
6 supporters
Add comment
Yes
0
No
4
Large-scale Violence
Are there 9/11 depictions?
3 supporters
Add comment
Yes
0
No
17
Law Enforcement
Is there copaganda?
6 supporters
Yes
0
No
25
2
saste12
Cops are featured a couple times, but they're pretty much useless. The show doesn't glorify them at all.
2 comments | Add comment
Is there incarceration?
4 supporters
Add comment
Yes
0
No
7
LGBTQ+
Is there deadnaming or birthnaming?
16 supporters
Add comment
Yes
0
No
9
Are there transphobic slurs?
20 supporters
Add comment
Yes
0
No
10
Yes
0
No
6
Is an LGBT+ person outed?
10 supporters
Add comment
Yes
0
No
3
Is there bisexual cheating?
13 supporters
Add comment
Yes
0
No
11
Loss
Is a priceless artifact destroyed?
3 supporters
Add comment
Yes
1
No
3
Medical
Is electro-therapy used?
14 supporters
Add comment
Yes
0
No
57
Yes
41
No
6
4
qwerty.123
In episode 8 there is a needle shoved into someone’s arm by a plague doctor.
1 comment | Add comment
Is there a mental institution scene?
17 supporters
Add comment
Yes
1
No
58
Yes
56
No
5
6
AlesserGod
Spoilers for episode 4:
There is a family in a hospital waiting room that is told the news of a persons death but there is no view of the hospital room itself.
2 comments | Add comment
Is there menstruation?
5 supporters
Add comment
Yes
0
No
4
Yes
7
No
50
6
cornixregina
It was Tuberculosis not cancer
4 comments | Add comment
Mental Health
Yes
19
No
0
2
TarotCard
SLIGHT SPOLIERS
The ghost of Dani's husband may symbolize hallucinations and PTSD.
2 comments | Add comment
Does someone have a mental illness?
12 supporters
Add comment
Yes
8
No
1
Yes
61
No
5
11
Anonymous
Miles drops himself out of a tree, apparently in an attempt to hurt himself.
1 comment | Add comment
Is autism misrepresented?
15 supporters
Add comment
Yes
0
No
7
Is a mentally ill person violent?
13 supporters
Add comment
Yes
0
No
23
1
Not D.I.D. but does show multiple spirits in the same body.
Systems may be triggered by religious scenes that demonize being more than one. And the overall message, especially the ending, that priorities singlethood over life itself.
2 comments | Add comment
1
saste12
A suicide that happened before the show's present time is discussed by the characters, but no suicides nor attempts actually happen in the story.
1 comment | Add comment
Is reality unstable or unhinged?
9 supporters
Add comment
Yes
7
No
0
Does someone have a meltdown?
4 supporters
Add comment
Yes
5
No
0
Is there misophonia?
22 supporters
Yes
3
No
16
0
Anonymous
There were several times in various episodes where I came across a misophonia trigger, specifically the sound of a kiss/smooch and several times with mouth sounds and general eating sounds but it isn’t bad. It isn’t extremely noticeable to most people but my misophonia is very sensitive and it was triggered several times in several episodes!
1 comment | Add comment
Is there ABA therapy?
11 supporters
Add comment
Yes
0
No
8
Is there body dysphoria?
10 supporters
Add comment
Yes
0
No
8
Is there body dysmorphia?
15 supporters
Add comment
Yes
1
No
49
Yes
0
No
26
Yes
85
No
1
18
Anonymous
Dani has several panic attacks brought about by seeing her specific ghost. She hyperventilates, cries, and overall is having a very bad time.
3 comments | Add comment
8
EliRowan
At the end of episode 1, Dani is locked in a closet.
4 comments | Add comment
19
jessg
The housekeeper doesn’t eat and until it’s explained, it can be perceived as an eating disorder
3 comments | Add comment
Is there autism specific abuse?
25 supporters
Add comment
Yes
1
No
61
10
Adamm
The previous au pair's suicide is frequently discussed

6 comments | Add comment
Noxious
Yes
11
No
0
0
valhdia
S1
 E1
32:21 - after a big build up, the kettle whistles
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Are there underwater scenes?
6 supporters
Add comment
Yes
9
No
0
Does a baby cry?
13 supporters
Yes
5
No
16
0
rainbear
Very briefly in episode 8
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Is there shakey cam?
20 supporters
Add comment
Yes
0
No
50
Is there screaming?
7 supporters
Add comment
Yes
4
No
1
0
rainbear
Profanity
1 comment | Add comment
9
Kris
There is bright flashing from a camera in several episodes. As an epileptic myself this did bother me and I had to turn away.
3 comments | Add comment
Paranoia
0
valhdia
S1
 E1
Miles watches Dani undressing but she notices him before he sees anything
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Is the fourth wall broken?
4 supporters
Add comment
Yes
0
No
13
Pregnancy
Is a baby stillborn?
11 supporters
Add comment
Yes
0
No
15
Is there childbirth?
12 supporters
Yes
57
No
2
4
AllyCally
Ep 6. "The Jolly Corner" has a brief childbirth scene in the beginning.
3 comments | Add comment
Are there abortions?
13 supporters
Add comment
Yes
0
No
52
Are there babies or unborn children?
8 supporters
Add comment
Yes
15
No
0
Yes
0
No
49
2
Kimikins
No but it is mentioned that a child born between the two sisters dies as an infant.
1 comment | Add comment
Does a pregnant person die?
10 supporters
Add comment
Yes
0
No
54
Prejudice
Are there fat jokes?
24 supporters
Add comment
Yes
0
No
55
Yes
11
No
43
11
alisonlin
Kind of. The season is not told linearly but, on a second watch, we realize that one of the very first deaths, not initially shown, is a person of color.
3 comments | Add comment
Yes
6
No
54
4
Setting_Records_Gay
In episode 5, Miles is possessed and says the pejorative “F” word derogatory to homosexual men when referring to a cigarette. Context matters but it can be triggering to some.
2 comments | Add comment
Yes
0
No
56
Yes
16
No
6
3
wdyask
Episode 4, timestamp 5:08-5:18, a woman mentions she wishes she'd had a daughter to pass on her old dress to, then jokes with a quick roll of her eyes that a certain one of her sons might have liked it. As a trans woman who's generally sensitive to this trigger, I actually chuckled at the line and considered it positive, since she says it rather lovingly and with a smile and the person she's talking to doesn't react, all a relief considering the scene takes place in the 70s or 80s. It just came off to me as a quick reference to her likely having a gay son, but I'm still voting Yes because I could certainly understand more negative interpretations.
2 comments | Add comment
Is there hate speech?
14 supporters
Add comment
Yes
0
No
54
Is a minority is misrepresented?
9 supporters
Add comment
Yes
0
No
10
Yes
89
No
1
11
AlesserGod
Major Spoiler:
In the last episode of the season one of the gay girls drowns herself in a lake to end the curse of the ghost that came back so it wouldn't kill her lover.
4 comments | Add comment
Yes
0
No
46
Are there n-words?
12 supporters
Add comment
Yes
0
No
60
Is there aphobia?
9 supporters
Add comment
Yes
0
No
10
Race
Is there blackface?
10 supporters
Add comment
Yes
0
No
9
Relationships
Yes
3
No
9
5
A child is possessed by the spirit of an adult man, and sometimes gets borderline flirtatious with adult women. It's not too bad, but there's a moment where the kid strokes a woman's ear, which may skeeve you out.
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Religious
Yes
7
No
0
1
Yes, Christianity - Scenes being taught by nuns. A lot of talk about the bible verses to do with Legion (the man that was possessed with multiple spirits and Jesus moved the extra spirits to some nearby pigs and drowned the pigs/spirits).
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Are there demons or Hell?
7 supporters
Add comment
Yes
1
No
2
Sex
Yes
49
No
4
10
qwerty.123
Characters have sex off screen and make out on screen.
1 comment | Add comment
Is someone sexually objectified?
19 supporters
Add comment
Yes
0
No
14
Yes
1
No
13
0
saste12
Partial nudity when characters are getting dressed or during/after sex scenes. Nothing above a PG-13 rating.
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Is there bestiality?
41 supporters
Add comment
Yes
0
No
12
Is there BDSM?
8 supporters
Add comment
Yes
0
No
6
Does someone lose their virginity?
6 supporters
Add comment
Yes
0
No
7
Are there incestuous relationships?
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42 supporters
Yes
49
No
7
11
qwerty.123
A character implies that his father sexually abused him and other young children in a conversation with his mother, who is complicit. The scene is a few minutes long. It is in episode 7 around the 40 minute mark when peter flashes back to his mom knocking at the door. A brother and a sister are possessed by a couple.
4 comments | Add comment
Sexism
1
rainbear
No but the narrator says a widower "bore his bereavement soberly and manfully."
1 comment | Add comment
Sickness
Does someone have a stroke?
5 supporters
Add comment
Yes
0
No
13
2
saste12
In Episode 8, a character is shown to be slowly dying from a chronic illness. It's clear they're suffering, often kept in bed and needing to be cared for by others. It's a major part of the episode. In the first 4 episodes, a character mentions their mother is suffering from dementia and needs to be cared for. The mother is not seen, but the impact of her illness is called a "burden" and discussed in detail by the character.
1 comment | Add comment
Yes
8
No
3
1
rainbear
Owen's mother has dementia. We don't see her but he talks about her a lot, including some disturbing talk about how being her caregiver is a burden.
2 comments | Add comment
Is someone terminally ill?
11 supporters
Add comment
Yes
7
No
1
Social
Is someone homeless?
3 supporters
Add comment
Yes
0
No
14
Are there anti-abortion themes?
16 supporters
Add comment
Yes
0
No
7
Are there fat suits?
10 supporters
Add comment
Yes
0
No
7
Is existentialism debated?
5 supporters
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Yes
3
No
1
Spoiler
Is Santa (et al) spoiled?
1 supporters
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Yes
0
No
52
Are there end credit scenes?
10 supporters
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Yes
0
No
6
Yes
64
No
4
9
alisonlin
More of a bittersweet ending, but very emotional.
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Vehicular
Does a car crash?
5 supporters
Yes
44
No
6
6
Agaryulnaer
In episode 4 a man is hit by a car, though the focus is on him and not the car.
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Does a car honk or tires screech?
4 supporters
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Yes
15
No
0
Does a plane crash?
4 supporters
Yes
5
No
51
2
pinklemonade
Flora and Miles parents die in a plane crash. It is not shown just mentioned.
1 comment | Add comment
Yes
69
No
0
6
BeeArthur
Yes. Someone is hit and killed by a moving truck in episode 4
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Violence
Is there a nuclear explosion?
3 supporters
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Yes
0
No
52
Is there blood/gore?
25 supporters
Yes
45
No
3
4
qwerty.123
There is a bloody hand and blood is shown on the ground beneath someone who has been hit by a truck.
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Does someone drown?
10 supporters
Yes
79
No
2
10
Irrellephant
There are multiple drownings, it's a very common recurring theme in the story.
5 comments | Add comment
Yes
0
No
49
0
S1
 E3
The gardener accidentally points a gun at Dani, but no one is shot.
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